Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
It tends to be a redflag. Mostly male friends because they will supplicates her.She says she prefers men as friends to women. Is that a bad sign?
The biggest issue is her lack of female friends. If other decent women she knows don’t like her or ostracize her for some reason, it’s usually for a significant issue. i.e., she’s regarded as a hoe, cheater, or mentally unfit by them… Then as a result she makes male friends to fill her friend gap, and that as we know can easily lead to sex.She says she prefers men as friends to women. Is that a bad sign?
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
H0es usually have other female h0es as friends.The biggest issue is her lack of female friends. If other decent women she knows don’t like her or ostracize her for some reason, it’s usually for a significant issue. i.e., she’s regarded as a hoe, cheater, or mentally unfit by them… Then as a result she makes male friends to fill her friend gap, and that as we know can easily lead to sex.
Eventually yes. Does not apply if she’s in a transitional stage after being kicked out of a decent female group though.H0es usually have other female h0es as friends.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
You know the answer already, man! @El PayasoShe says she prefers men as friends to women. Is that a bad sign?
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Normally true. Women may b competitive with her and she chooses not to deal with it.Yes. It indicates that she only has her looks to attract people, not her personality. Having woman friends indicates stability. If she doesn’t, it’s because she can’t hold friendships with others.
No. She is with her friends. She turns it into one. They don’t have the rationality to think like that. That’s what makes it bad.Normally true. Women may b competitive with her and she chooses not to deal with it.
What you mean? She's nuts and change anything to a competition and not even females want to be around her? Only stupid male orbiters? While alpha and other aware males stay away?No. She is with her friends. She turns it into one. They don’t have the rationality to think like that. That’s what makes it bad.
Like she has to be better than all the other girls so she will make everything a competition between them and her. She has to be the best. And so she’ll inadvertently put them down or sabotage them. How she is able to get the guys is SOLELY through her looks and body language. But she cannot hold a LTR for probably more than a few months lol.What you mean? She's nuts and change anything to a competition and not even females want to be around her? Only stupid male orbiters? While alpha and other aware males stay away?
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.