"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Is ignoring or not showing care for your targeted girl a kind of pseudo tactic of attracting her?

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Ignoring works on crazy obsessive women. They will totally lose their minds over you if they want you to begin with and you don't give yourself to them. However, if you know what's good for you then you'll make sure to use any means of escaping these women. They're crazy and will absolutely destroy you if given the chance.

Other than for those women it's balance which is the best way. Not too much or too little attention. Don't be pushy, respect their space and always gauge their interest level. If it goes down you pull away a little, if it goes up then you can essentially escalate to the point where it goes down and then pull back a little. You don't have to and shouldn't find this balance blind, you find it by reading the responses of the specific girl. It's really not that hard, just many guys don't get this concept.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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To ignore a girl you want to have sex with is childish girl games and weak thinking. Could you imagine James Bond ignoring Pu$sy Galore because he wanted to raise her interest level?

The only reason you should ignore a girl is if you want nothing to with her.

Otherwise get in her face and make a move.
 
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You only ignore her when she does something wrong

And reward her when she does something right

She has to earn your attention
 
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