"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Is Hollywood sexist for determining that 37 y.o. woman is too old for lover of 55 y.o. man?

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Sho-No-Luv

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Hmm, so that means I'm entitled to a 29 yr old then huh?

Even though I've dated younger than that in the past. When i was 43 i dated a 21 year old and she was beautiful and fine as hell and CRAZY as hell too, lol.
 

Who Dares Win

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Its not about age its about look, if she was hotter there wouldnt be a problem with her role.

Im sure the guy being 55 is still taller, better built and with more hair on his head than men half his age yet nobody complains.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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That_dude

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Hmm, so that means I'm entitled to a 29 yr old then huh?

Even though I've dated younger than that in the past. When i was 43 i dated a 21 year old and she was beautiful and fine as hell and CRAZY as hell too, lol.
I dated a 25 year chick from city at 39. Ran into Adam Sandler grabbing lunch in Manhattan one day :D
I typically go for chicks closer to my age though. The whole age debate is a good one :rolleyes:
 

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Funny. She played Jeff Bridges love interest in Crazy Heart, awesome movie by the way. There had to be at least 30 years difference between them for that film. She was hotter then so it was "ok," haha.

This is actually poetic justice for all men in that we age more gracefully and slower than women do. So all those HB8-9's that act like little b*itches with Princess Syndrome will all get their just desserts eventually. HA!
 
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