"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Is Hollywood sexist for determining that 37 y.o. woman is too old for lover of 55 y.o. man?

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Sho-No-Luv

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Hmm, so that means I'm entitled to a 29 yr old then huh?

Even though I've dated younger than that in the past. When i was 43 i dated a 21 year old and she was beautiful and fine as hell and CRAZY as hell too, lol.
 
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Who Dares Win

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Its not about age its about look, if she was hotter there wouldnt be a problem with her role.

Im sure the guy being 55 is still taller, better built and with more hair on his head than men half his age yet nobody complains.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Sho-No-Luv said:
Hmm, so that means I'm entitled to a 29 yr old then huh?

Even though I've dated younger than that in the past. When i was 43 i dated a 21 year old and she was beautiful and fine as hell and CRAZY as hell too, lol.
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I dated a 25 year chick from city at 39. Ran into Adam Sandler grabbing lunch in Manhattan one day :D
I typically go for chicks closer to my age though. The whole age debate is a good one :rolleyes:
 
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Funny. She played Jeff Bridges love interest in Crazy Heart, awesome movie by the way. There had to be at least 30 years difference between them for that film. She was hotter then so it was "ok," haha.

This is actually poetic justice for all men in that we age more gracefully and slower than women do. So all those HB8-9's that act like little b*itches with Princess Syndrome will all get their just desserts eventually. HA!
 
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