"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Is going roller skating a good first date?

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Just another example of something to do on a date.

My girlfriend has a phobia of birds and reptiles...


On friday I took her to the Zoo.

All the while she was shrieking and clinging to me, telling me what a jerk I was. Meanwhile I was laughing and leading us around the different sections. The bird solarium was my favourite. I had a great time, it was all fun.

Afterwards, she told me it was awesome. Go figure :)

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The point is, find something your girlfriend doesn't like to do. And do it with her. Broaden her horizons. Girls LIKE emotional rollercoasters. My gf was terrified and would shriek and try to hide behind me every time a bird flew over us. She had her eyes closed for some parts of it. Yet afterwards, she loved it.

Find something she doesn't like to do, or is afraid of, and DO IT WITH HER. You'll be laughing your ass off, she'll be terrified, and afterwards she will love you for it. Why? Because it shows you understand what girls truely want.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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