Is getting cheated on just "part of the deal" when entering in to a relationship with

[Poonani Maker]

a woman? I'm just coming to expect getting cheated on these days. If I get married to this one broad, I won't be surprised if sometime down the road she cheats on me. It just seems like that these days, it's just the status quo. They cheat. There's nothing you can do about it, except tell the same tired old story of how you got cheated on or abused by a woman. There's no escaping it. Women eventually grow tired of you, whether or not you change for them. So why not just love and lost rather than never having loved at all? Just Go Through Life. These things are inevitable. Don't be surprised. We're men, and highly abused by the weaker sex.

 

[46and2aheadofme]

Men AND Women cheat in this society. Maybe women are more prone to it because they are more emotionally charged, but that's up to speculation. The only way a relationship will be devoid of cheating is if the one with the higher value feels somehow morally obligated not to. This is extremely rare, and therefore, as I see the world now, I don't think I could ever marry. The only way a girl doesn't cheat on you is if you hold all the power. Even then, there is still a high chance she will.

 

[SharinganUser]

There isn't much you can do to stop a person from cheating so don't worry about it. I wouldn't let that stop me from getting into a relationship. There are worse things than getting cheated on, trust me. Last week I saw a monk sitting on a bench in Bangkok. His entire body was covered in warts, yet he seemed so content with his life.

Basically, bad things are going to happen to you, but you make the choice to either dwell on it and let it defeat you, or move on and enjoy life.

 

[oakraiderz2]

There is something you can do. Dont get in a relationship or married.

 

[KontrollerX]

Yes the majority of the time this is exactly what will happen.

The society and culture is in decay and we're living in free for all times.

Unwritten rules that kept order and stability in the past are laughed at and mocked as archaic today.

Meaning those previous unwritten societal rules turned a cheater into a societal pariah sending that person the clear message that you'd better treat your significant other with respect and if you want out of a relationship you end it first in a classy way. You don't cheat then get caught and then it ends or cheat and leave. No, you first end the relationship and then go and find someone else. In that order.

Society today no longer subscribes to this unwritten rule and so cheaters are now rampant men and women alike.

I am reminded of a quote from Kathy Bates's character in the movie Primary Colors where she says "Its not the cheater that goes to hell but only the one that they cheated on".

Which of course means that in today's world only the victim of cheating suffers as the cheater is no longer cast out of polite society for their wrong doing and infact in many cases are now rewarded.

Leykis 101 solves this little problem for anyone that will subscribe to it.

 

[Leporello]

Sheesh what kind of women are you guys going out with? Sure cheating is highly prevalent in human society....but it's far from inevitable.

 

[trd323]

Guys!! for as many women that cheat there is as much that do not. By just saying that they all cheat is wrong. Everyone woman wants to be a monogamous relationship, they have been brought up that way, but if the man cannot hold his end of the bargain in the mating game then it is the MAN'S fault. IT will always be our fault.

Men stop seducing their women because they think that because I locked her down that she will nver leave and she is obligated to stay; WRONG. When you go into a relationship the seduction is on everyday, I repeat everyday. You have to technically sarge her everyday. You have to always act like the guy she fell in love with when you first met. Remember when you would tell her to go pack her bags and not tell her where you two were going, or when you would go on romantic dates, etc These fail many men when they get married.

IT is 100000000000x harder to "game" a relationship than it is a fling. So go out there and find the girl of your dreams and when you find her; sarge her everyday, DO NOT ever go a day where she does not feel special with you, if you do that she will never stray.

 

[WC2]

Guys!! for as many women that cheat there is as much that do not. By just saying that they all cheat is wrong. Everyone woman wants to be a monogamous relationship, they have been brought up that way, but if the man cannot hold his end of the bargain in the mating game then it is the MAN'S fault. IT will always be our fault.

Men stop seducing their women because they think that because I locked her down that she will nver leave and she is obligated to stay; WRONG. When you go into a relationship the seduction is on everyday, I repeat everyday. You have to technically sarge her everyday. You have to always act like the guy she fell in love with when you first met. Remember when you would tell her to go pack her bags and not tell her where you two were going, or when you would go on romantic dates, etc These fail many men when they get married.

IT is 100000000000x harder to "game" a relationship than it is a fling. So go out there and find the girl of your dreams and when you find her; sarge her everyday, DO NOT ever go a day where she does not feel special with you, if you do that she will never stray.

True but of course there are exceptions. There are DJs out there who are ample men who are just in love with women who want to have their cake and eat it as well.

That's why you tend to find that cheating women are usually selfish women as well. They want a relationship that looks great on the surface, but they also want different men all up in them on the inside as well.

There isn't one man who can hold this type of woman down, for she's usually still in her party stages. I don't care if you're Don Juan himself with a swinging 12in d!ck, she will cheat if she has the opportunity to get away with it.

 

[trd323]

If you can satisfy a woman in everyway physically and emoptionally. Then there is no reason that she has to go away. And yes, sometimes however good you are sometimes the fit between two people will never match and that is ok. But you need to realize it and deal with it and make a decision. It is when people stay in a relationship that they know is bad that there is cheating. In every relationship I have been in, I have always had a feeling that somethig is not right anymore.

Cool though.

 

[WC2]

If you can satisfy a woman in everyway physically and emoptionally. Then there is no reason that she has to go away. And yes, sometimes however good you are sometimes the fit between two people will never match and that is ok. But you need to realize it and deal with it and make a decision. It is when people stay in a relationship that they know is bad that there is cheating. In every relationship I have been in, I have always had a feeling that somethig is not right anymore.

Cool though.

True that!

 

[ready123]

If this actually worries you to the point of paranoia, don't get in a relationship. You're not ready

If say you did get cheated on and you're more prone to flipping out and jumping off a cliff than moving on with your life, you're not ready either

And no, not all women cheat - obviously the world isn't that absolute. If you guys with game wanna prove this to yourself, spend a few months trying to mack only on girls in relationships. You'll find a solid block of girls who will be unresponsive

Far as a girl cheating on you, you do not have complete control over her. You can learn to qualify potential girlfriends better, learn to operate in relationships better, and refrain from LTR mistakes that MOST people out there make, but ultimately only time will tell

 

[KontrollerX]

If you can satisfy a woman in everyway physically and emotionally. Then there is no reason that she has to go away.

No reason from a male's perspective but all that doesn't necessarily keep a chick loyal.

Sometimes variety and newness is what a particular girl craves and no matter how much emotional or physical fulfillment you can give such a girl she will go and get strange d!ck regardless as newness and variety is what such a girl desires and not stability.

Thats what I hope all believers in the quality woman myth understand.

 

[ready123]

Not only that, but some girls are literally just fvcked in the head and are emotionally broken

Qualify, qualify, qualify... not as an attraction technique but genuinely as a filter

 

[SharinganUser]

You guys need to get out more. A friend of mine told me that he has been in a 3 year relationship with a cbc and has never been cheated on because Chinese women don't want to lose face.

 

[Energizer]

I don't get emotionally attached to women, therefore if they cheat or not doesn't matter to me, I'm just there for the sex. Though, I wish them well by hoping they catch HIV or something as equally as unpleasant.

 

[Bible_Belt]

Guys!! for as many women that cheat there is as much that do not. By just saying that they all cheat is wrong. Everyone woman wants to be a monogamous relationship, they have been brought up that way, but if the man cannot hold his end of the bargain in the mating game then it is the MAN'S fault. IT will always be our fault.

Men stop seducing their women because they think that because I locked her down that she will nver leave and she is obligated to stay; WRONG. When you go into a relationship the seduction is on everyday, I repeat everyday. You have to technically sarge her everyday. You have to always act like the guy she fell in love with when you first met. Remember when you would tell her to go pack her bags and not tell her where you two were going, or when you would go on romantic dates, etc These fail many men when they get married.

IT is 100000000000x harder to "game" a relationship than it is a fling. So go out there and find the girl of your dreams and when you find her; sarge her everyday, DO NOT ever go a day where she does not feel special with you, if you do that she will never stray.

I agree. The one fail-proof defense against cheating is interest level. Cultivate that interest level and always keep it high, and she will never cheat.