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Is fvcking with a colleague a general no go?

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One of my jobs I work in retail part time and in my department a girl the same age as me has joined recently and there's instant flirting and attraction off the bat. I know I could but is it a bad idea ?

Like to hear some advice generally on this topic and for my specific situation.

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One of my jobs I work in retail part time and in my department a girl the same age as me has joined recently and there's instant flirting and attraction off the bat. I know I could but is it a bad idea ?

Like to hear some advice generally on this topic and for my specific situation.

Thanks
The general consensus here will be to not tap her. From my personal experience, it can usually create a very awkward and unprofessional situation at work and eventually result in at least one person leaving the job.
 

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One of my jobs I work in retail part time and in my department a girl the same age as me has joined recently and there's instant flirting and attraction off the bat. I know I could but is it a bad idea ?

Like to hear some advice generally on this topic and for my specific situation.

Thanks
I think it's ok if it's definitely a mutual attraction. But if she's an attention whoare or a drama queen then steer clear. Basically it has to be super easy with minimal input on your part. Ask her out for a drink and escalate outside of work. If she gives you excuses and so on just forget her completely and never bring it up again.
 

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For white collar professional work, the answer is no.

For part time retail work, the answer is go for it. Part time retail work doesn't matter. Most people who work service sector McJobs have short tenures at their jobs. Replacing a McJob is much easier than replacing a white collar professional job.
 

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Yeah go for it. It is one thing if you were a high level executive at a job. Too much risk of ousting you from a high salary position for some pvssy. At the same time, I suspect when you are at that level, you are rich enough to get any woman you want outside of work. Though I can understand the temptation of tapping that short skirt wearing secretary you see everyday bending over and such...

I digress. Flirt, see what happens, fvck around a bit, and live.
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

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One of my jobs I work in retail part time and in my department a girl the same age as me has joined recently and there's instant flirting and attraction off the bat. I know I could but is it a bad idea ?

Like to hear some advice generally on this topic and for my specific situation.

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I would go for it at your age. Even if you fuk up it is gonna be a good experience for the future.
 

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Yeah go for it. It is one thing if you were a high level executive at a job. Too much risk of ousting you from a high salary position for some pvssy. At the same time, I suspect when you are at that level, you are rich enough to get any woman you want outside of work. Though I can understand the temptation of tapping that short skirt wearing secretary you see everyday bending over and such...
Replacing an executive level job is a pain. You're right that a lot of high level executives can get pusssy without having major pusssy droughts.

The pandemic has reduced in-person stuff so few white collar workers have a short skirt wearing secretary they see daily. In fact, even before the pandemic, secretarial jobs were disappearing.
 

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Replacing an executive level job is a pain. You're right that a lot of high level executives can get pusssy without having major pusssy droughts.

The pandemic has reduced in-person stuff so few white collar workers have a short skirt wearing secretary they see daily. In fact, even before the pandemic, secretarial jobs were disappearing.
Really? I thought secretary jobs was one of the stables for any person. They add a certain value to the productive part of the business, at least from what I've experienced. I wouldn't mind one personally.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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logic....

go to work so you can increase your status due to money from work. use status to attract women. this scenario has several steps.
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shortcut; get the cute girl at work and then get another job if you want one.
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the question is what is easier for YOU to get, a job like that or a girl like that. keep the more valuable one and replace the other if/as needed.
 

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Really? I thought secretary jobs was one of the stables for any person. They add a certain value to the productive part of the business, at least from what I've experienced. I wouldn't mind one personally.


 

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The general consensus here will be to not tap her. From my personal experience, it can usually create a very awkward and unprofessional situation at work and eventually result in at least one person leaving the job.
it's not too professional of a job , we are both young and tbh the rule if you were to date someone , youd apparently either get fired or moved departments. now I'm not planning to date her so I doubt it'd be a problem and tbh although it's retail , I'm a asset to that team I'd like to think lol.
 

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I think it's ok if it's definitely a mutual attraction. But if she's an attention whoare or a drama queen then steer clear. Basically it has to be super easy with minimal input on your part. Ask her out for a drink and escalate outside of work. If she gives you excuses and so on just forget her completely and never bring it up again.
yeah one concern is she's a bit flirty with everyone , although people have noticed she's taken special attention to me. Should I consider her to be a " attention ***** ".
 

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I agree 100% , this is not a career job.
definitely not , working there till I finish college (UK) . that saying , is ****ing someone in retail gonna get you fired ? it's good pay.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

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One of my jobs I work in retail part time and in my department a girl the same age as me has joined recently and there's instant flirting and attraction off the bat. I know I could but is it a bad idea ?

Like to hear some advice generally on this topic and for my specific situation.

Thanks
You're 18 years old. I disagree with the guys above trying to distinguish between it being a "career" or a "job." It makes no difference. One wrong move and she reports you to HR. This kind of thing can follow you wherever you go and will be something you never live down career wise whether it is related to what you ultimately get a degree/expertise in or not. This is without even addressing the normal day-to-day headache which is much less serious but still problematic. Don't do it.

Get women somewhere else, brother. It isn't worth it.
 

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I'd be a hypocrite if I said don't have sex with coworkers because I met my current gf at work, but I've done it twice it got awkward when it didn't work out. If you don't interact with her at all at work then it could be doable, but there is also a liability risk of losing your job because of the fling, especially if she's high on the crazy scale.
 

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I would say that it's generally a bad idea if you value your job. However, we are talking about a part-time retail job. You can get another job like that on whim, especially in this market, so who cares?
 
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You're 18 years old. I disagree with the guys above trying to distinguish between it being a "career" or a "job." It makes no difference. One wrong move and she reports you to HR. This kind of thing can follow you wherever you go and will be something you never live down career wise whether it is related to what you ultimately get a degree/expertise in or not. This is without even addressing the normal day-to-day headache which is much less serious but still problematic. Don't do it.

Get women somewhere else, brother. It isn't worth it.
I understand that but like it's retail , it's not serious at all and has nothing to do with the job i wanna do
 

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The Down Side is greater than the upside. The majority of relationships end, and at least half of them that end, end on bad terms. I needed the cash flow during University even if the job wasn't one for my career.
 
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