"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Is First World Loneliness Worst than Third World Hardship?

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Hi Plumber,
"Birth rate is much higher in some places. It means humans are doing better in those places." Perhaps initially,but all too often it's a case of the "The rich get richer,while the poor have Children"....It is one of lifes great Paradoxes,that the declining birthrates in Europe and N.E.Asia are thought to be a reflection of the remarkable prosperity in those areas.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Hi Gamisch,
Coming from a long line of Farmers and Construction workers I can find very little to recommend it...So many of those Guys were broken down in their fifties,their health broken,joints ground to bits,left to mean and miserable lives on Government Assistance.
 

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because they don't want to.

Maybe you don't quite understand what I mean here.


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It's not even 3rd world. The 3rd world op is talking about, in South America, or Oceania, that's a real ghetto.

Do you find anything strong in first picture? Trash all over? I don't find it strong. Weak men and women do that.
Second and third picture. Those are strong men and women? Police don't work in 3rd world. Idea of police is to come when you get murdered.

So stop idealizing 3rd world bull ****. United States is the best for a reason, people that live in United States want it to be the best.
 

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Well anyway the answer to the question is no. But you could always trade places with a guy in South Sudan or Haiti and see for yourself.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I don't think the OP has been to any third world countries.
He's indulging in a spin-off of The Noble Savage Myth, by imagining people who live in abject squalor yet are happier, by virtue of being "more pure", via their distance from civilization

To bastardize a few words from Jarvis ****er:
If one spends even 15 minutes walking through the favelas of Rio De Janerio or the slums of Karachi, he'll witness a jaw-breaking abundance of savagery, yet dog sh-t in the way of nobility. Even the most dingy ghettoes of North America and Western Europe look like the shores of Waikki compared to such abominations
 

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Maybe you don't quite understand what I mean here.


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It's not even 3rd world. The 3rd world op is talking about, in South America, or Oceania, that's a real ghetto.

Do you find anything strong in first picture? Trash all over? I don't find it strong. Weak men and women do that.
Second and third picture. Those are strong men and women? Police don't work in 3rd world. Idea of police is to come when you get murdered.

So stop idealizing 3rd world bull ****. United States is the best for a reason, people that live in United States want it to be the best.
Sorry but the US FAR from the best ..get out of that patriotic bubble and educate yourself please.

Other than that I agree and even liked your post
 
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