"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Is Facebook the POF for the masses?

CostaDeSol

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I like how Facebook has helped me kit with old friends and family members.

but i can't help but notice how much attention girls get on that site. It reminds me of POF. hot girls and even semi-hot girls get a TON of attention.

Now I can ask them out using Facebook, but even then the odds aren't much better than POF.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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CostaDeSol

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Mauser96 said:
Get alot of female friends, alot. Hot and otherwise.
so i have to make some female friends and engage with them online to make myself more desirable to women i interact with online.

Its seems like your saying i need to increase my social circle.

which is true. My social life is crap right now and I guess my online life reflects that.
 
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