"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Is Facebook good for getting lays?

ElStud

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Just wondering, if you know girls through Facebook, is it generally a good idea to try and meet them up through there?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Flabbergasped?

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Not really.

Try to somehow see them in person (you usually facebook people if you're in the same class/circle anyway), then get the digits and go from there.
 

Effington

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Are you talking about randomly "friending" someone and asking them out? It's a little on the unusual side but not impossible to pull off. Obviously looks are pretty important in this category since that is pretty much all they have to go off of.

I actually think one of my friends did that to some girl from school, and they've been now dating for 4 years and pretty much engaged. The funny thing is, I was there for their "first date", which was our bowling night, and I was making fun of him for asking a random girl out on facebook. Then she showed up and she was a hottie and I was like, damn, maybe I should do that.

Facebook is GREAT for getting in contact with the "acquaintence" type people, that's for sure. I am friends with like half of my high school class from years ago (that I would never have spoken to otherwise) and have actually gone out to a couple random parties when they throw out invites. You know, I'm actually pretty good friends now with some people in my class I never spoke to during our high school years, just because of the site. Everyone is very enthuastic to see how each other is doing nowadays. But I digress.
 

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Not really, myspace and facebook seem to be cyber outlets for a crew of AWs in my experience.
 
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No, Facebook is good for social networking and keeping up with your friends you don't see often. Also to make fun of hotties and their pictures.

Not for lays, but it's obviously possible.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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young_gun

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You can get laid if you neg her 6 times before you meet her, calibrate the situation, do "the cube" on her, and show DHV by showing her your insane storytelling skills and magic tricks. Facebook bypasses the "hook point" and places you right to stage S1, where you can get her phone number and possibly get her to give you a cyber bl0wjob. So in my experience, yes, Facebook is good for cyber bl0wjobs, but you can't get laid by using Facebook.

Wake up ElStud, Facebook game is for pvssies.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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If you can spark their interest on myspace that is one thing. But, when you meet her in person and still keep her attracted then, you made a fvck buddy.

Cause if you can't spark the interest in real life you will fail.
 

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Yeah it is, i've had 2 ons from Facebook...use the app called "zoosk"

I say 2 atm ;)

Demonic
 

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ElStud said:
Just wondering, if you know girls through Facebook, is it generally a good idea to try and meet them up through there?
If you have something to offer them that the other guys don't, why not?

Any place is a good place to meet girls, just depends on what you are selling.
 

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Well the facts stay facts. One could approach tens of women on the street in the time it takes to d!ck around in a virtual community with one. All while also getting actual experience too, becoming a more capable communicator.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ElStud

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Well lol is it even possible to get to know a girl you didn't know before over Facebook though? That way, when you call her up, it wouldn't be as creepy and you can possibly meet up BEYOND Facebook.
 

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It's possible, but for you it's not.
 

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I believe facebook is good for reconnecting w/ past friends and current friends. There is a girl that I went to college w/ that I reconnected via facebook, she wanted to catch up w/ me, b/c we lived in the same area. I reconnected also w/ an old college roomate. But Facebook is ultimately not going to get you laid.
 
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