"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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is facebook anygood for hooking up?

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xomel

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is facebook any good for hooking up? better than myspace?


edit: is there something better? thats free.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Hooking up? No.

Meeting people that attend your college to broaden your social circle? Yes.

And yeah, there is a difference.

It's hard to use it merely for hooking up because your posts are broad casted on a feed to everyone that's on your list. It will say..

*your name* posted * your post which probably contains major flirtation* on *the girl your hitting on's* wall.

To you it might not matter, but to me, if i'm "spittin mad game" with five or six girls on facebook.. I don't want the other ones to see..

It's fine to say things such as, Hey, I don't believe i've seen you around campus, are you going to *insert party name* tonight?

Then make your moves, WISELY, at the party.

IF YOU WANT A DATING SITE ... JOIN A DATING SITE.
 
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IWillReturnsoon

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To you it might not matter, but to me, if i'm "spittin mad game" with five or six girls on facebook.. I don't want the other ones to see..
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Why would it matter if they see you spitting game with other girls or not?
They prolly like you even more since girls are digging you. Why hide it? Be proud of it.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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