"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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is ex stalking me?

Silko

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Hello

I posted last year several post on ex that broke up with me exactly 1 year ago.
It was a tough time.

Regardless she decided herself to break up, she bothered me a lot. She searches again and again my attention. Since 4 months I do nothing anymore. I remove her from all social media.
I continue my life.
I had to block her few weeks ago on Instagram cause she started to stalk me there.

She was furious and mailed me shortly ... "you never hear me again, promised". I just told her she hurted me a lot by liking a specific image on Instagram. I thought I could be a bit human again now telling what I felt.

3 nights ago, she sent me 2 big e-mails. she apologises for her (stalking) behaviour. She also told, although she broke up herself (now 1 year ago), the break up hurted her even more, and she can;t move on. But she knows it is still the right choice and wont repair anything.
She asked me to let her know I'm happy again, in order she can be happy too again ????

then a bit later a 2nd very large e-mail. she started to describe our nice passionate time we had. that she was truly in love with me, but she didnt dare to tell me cause she was affraid to scare me. So that's why she staid at distance blablablabla

What's wrong with this person??? I keep quite, I ignore her, and still she find a way to bother me. She search me again and again. I tried to meet her in the past twice. face to face. When meeting and talking on us ... she cuts off and throwed me out. I had to leave.

dont know what to do here.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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El Payaso

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She is trying to suck you back in. Hey describing your relationship is just an attempt to reignite old memories in you. That is why it it's important you delete all emails and ignore. Don't even read them. Block her on all platforms. Get a restraining order if you have to.
 
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