is "evil ways" good?!?!

[Jay-X]

as many of you know, i'm movin' to a new high school in september. i wanna become popular, but not the class-clown (in my ex-school i was both, so girls hit on me [because of the popularity] but i was disrespected as hell [because of the clownish attitude developed watchin' cool guys in middle school]). would it be good to follow the advices that you find in the guide "evil ways" (which i found reaaaaaaally nice), the ones related to socialization, such as:


do not let people treat you with disrespect even if this behaviour suddenly miraculously turns into a joke (because they see that you've gotten pissed). Always stay serious in these cases till the end. Make them look away first"
wouldn't this look too much ****y to be taken from "the new guy in school"? but then, if this doesn't apply, how should i react when i get disrespected? i used to laugh at jokes, but people would take advantage of me and started makin' fun of me, knowin' that i would have just laughed.

"stay friendly at first until that moment you get the idea people are being rude to you" this one is the most important: how should i apply it?! i mean, if you arrive to the new class and look like the most socialized and friendly person and at the first joke on you, you become a thug, wouldn't you look like a poser?!

"make a lot of friends but stay evil". explain a bit how should i do it, please

i think i'm done, please answer as many as you can

 

[DjMystery]

Ok first off stick to being a Dj its not hard just think of it this way be a "Great" guy no not "Nice" guy but "Great." Let me explain, be nice and friendly but dont let people push you around yeah you can laugh things off but only to a certain point then stand up dont let people take advantage of the fact your nice and laugh things off. Turn it around on them make them look like an ass, do what ever you need so you dont end up looking like the ass, period. Always keep your calm if you get "cracked" on by people make jokes about them right back, preferable there mom, always hit them where it hurts but let them know your just playing with them but make it seem like dont f*ck with me again though. The Key here is to keep your composure, never loose your cool unless you its taken to far and the line has been crossed. What you need to do is gain respect and by you laughing everything off your not. Be funny with out being a class clown be dominate with out looking like a jerk and and be a nice guy with out looking like a wuss.

 

[LikRetsam]

Don't tolerate disrespect.

Is it something that needs to be explained?

Just speak up.

 

[Brazilian_Blues_Boy]

I study a lot the posts, and the "art", of stockholder. In my opinion he's the best poster this forum has ever had, but for a special reason... I can relate to the things he wrote because most of them had happened to me...

So, be careful... being "evil" can get you in trouble, can make you lose friends and scare people away from you....
Find what's best for you , and stick it... try everything, even being a doormat... and being very evil.... then you'll know where you stand in the spectrum...

BBB