"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Is everyone here a mysogynist closet case?

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It seems like every other post here is some closet case talking about how much he hates women. What's up with that?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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its normal. This is a place to vent your ange when men get played/rejected/fear women.


While it is good to vent your frustrations, you are correct about the bitterness going 2 far for many of the guys around here.

I'v been burnt, and for a while i was on my "hate women" kind of rant a long time ago. I just needed to vent, learn from my mistakes and move on.

The problem is staying bitter.
 

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Yeah it has been happening alot. It cracks me up sometimes. Me I dont take ho's seriously enough to get that mad. Either I ****'em and pass'em to my homie or dont and pass'em to someone else. Simple as that.
 

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Amputechture came
Philistine praise
Bottomless pit of empty names

anyways, as I always say, "The moral of the story is...fvck b!tches"

Really, you have maybe 1-4 close male friends in your life that you've known for ever. How many casual male friends have you made that you don't care about seeing or spending time with?

Same goes with women. You're gonna date hundreds of girls, lay dozens, and get very close with only a handful. Most girls, like most guys, are pieces of sh!t that aren't even worth your time. The tricky part is figuring out who they are so you don't waste your time with them.
 
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There's a thread that was just recently made that is about using women for their money. Wow. Misogynist central.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Play the Game

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I'm not in the closet...I came out last week. Didn't you see my "i'm a psychopath" thread?
 

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Meccamputechture said:
It seems like every other post here is some closet case talking about how much he hates women. What's up with that?
23 posts out of nowhere and you come to this forum calling out everyone a "misogynist"? that term is so loose based.

Frequently the term misogynist is used in a looser sense as a term of derision to describe anyone who holds an unpopular or distasteful view about women as a group. A man who considers himself "a great lover of women," therefore, might somewhat paradoxically be termed a misogynist by those who consider his treatment of women sexist. Archetypes of this type of man might be Giacomo Casanova and Don Juan, who were both reputed for their many libertine affairs with women. Misogyny is a negative attitude towards women as a group, and so need not fully determine a misogynist's attitude towards each individual woman. The fact that someone holds misogynist views may not prevent them from having positive relationships with some women. Conversely, simply having negative relationships with some women does not necessarily mean someone holds misogynistic views. The term, like most negative descriptions of attitudes, is used as an epithet and applied to a wide variety of behaviors and attitudes. As with other terms, the more antipathetic one's position is in regards to misogyny, the larger the number of misogynysts and the greater variety of attitudes and behaviors who fall into one's perception of "misogynist".[specify] This is, of course, the subject of much controversy and debate with opinions ranging widely as to the extent and breadth of misogyny in society.
 

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I think women are totally awesome. I've never met such a loving, peaceful, intelligent, strong and benevolent type of person.
Imagine giving birth! They must be so incredibly strong and pain resistant ( scientists have proved women can stand more pain then men).
What about them being able to multi-task? Men can't do that! And they have better sense of smell as well. Wow, women are totally awesome.
 
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There is no such thing as a misogynist - The Matrix has you!!!

Say "No" to Hos and Ho-mos!!!!!!
 

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If you stick around and actually take the time to learn our world...

you would realize we are not misogynists (most of us LOL).

The downfall of human nature is our inability to discern grays; black and white is how we define this ridiculous world, and we pigeonhole everyone's beliefs into that strict paradigm.

Simply because our goals seems to be "conquering" women does not mean we are in a life and death battle with them.

Dude, the battlefield here is the bedroom, not the morgue. Lighten up.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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i called it first - original poster is a TROLL

he trolls other people's posts with stupid comments


and yea, i said u can use women for their money

how much of a loser/troll must u be to actually say thats ?mysogynust w/e the **** that word is


retard
 

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Call_Me_Daddy said:
I wonder. With a term like mysoginy (to hate women), why isn't there a term that defines to hate men?
LOL I'm sure there is dude, but with women, you never have to define or justify your beliefs or actions.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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DJDamage said:
23 posts out of nowhere and you come to this forum calling out everyone a "misogynist"? that term is so loose based.
Before you guys jump on him...remember that you are all pretty much desensitized to the anger and bitterness that runs rampant on this site. You're not able to see just how bad it really is.

To someone new just seeing this place for the first time...that IS what much of the posts sound like.
 

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Call_Me_Daddy said:
I wonder. With a term like mysoginy (to hate women), why isn't there a term that defines to hate men?
There is...it's referred to as misandry. You won't find it in the dictionary, but it's the "slang" term used for women who hate men.
 

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says the one with 20+ posts per day.
 

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Some of us have been fvcked over really well, so we still harbor a lack of trust for women. I know I do at least. I wish my ex would have dumped me over a text message. That would have been perfect to me. :cuss:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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