"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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is david deangelo's "body language dvd's" worth it?

john_1234

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DYD was worth it's weight in gold, ****y & Funny was a complete waste, and now I'm looking into the body language dvd's. would i learn anything of substance that i can't already learn from what's discussed on this site and in the DYD series? What are your reviews of this material?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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hey john, i purchased the ****y and funny as well, talk about a waste, i sent it back, anyways i hardly doubt the body languge you are seaking of is any good as well, note: i did bot order it
 

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dammit i'm too tired to type, speaking* and not* jsut correcting my typo's
 

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I'm thinking about buying his DVD about being humorous. I think that has more value than reading women's body language...if I'm going to only choose one.
 

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Dunno if the DVDs are worth it (bloody expensive), BUT

... body language precedes everything else. That, and your personal style are the very first things a woman sees, and immediately get you classed as a champ or chump in her eyes.

Ever heard a woman say "it was love at first sight," or the cheesy 'ol "you had me at hello"?
 
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Re: Dunno if the DVDs are worth it (bloody expensive), BUT

Originally posted by Bonhomme
... body language precedes everything else. That, and your personal style are the very first things a woman sees, and immediately get you classed as a champ or chump in her eyes.

Ever heard a woman say "it was love at first sight," or the cheesy 'ol "you had me at hello"?

I mentioned my priorities just because I can read them much accurate now.
 

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Too me it looks like it could be good. I am very interested in the topic.
 

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I have the body language dvd's, there are a few interesing parts to it I guess.

However, the bottom line is that if you have your shyt together, you'll give off all the right signals anyway.

After watching the dvd's I realised that when I'm on top form I do all the right things without even thinking. When I go out nowadays and am feeling good about life in general, it is not uncommon for women to aproach me. Funny though this never happened before I found this site or discovered any of David D's stuff.

If you've never seen David D's advanced series, you NEED to see it!! Sure a lot is repeated from this site, but there is just something about hearing it from the horses mouth that really makes it sink in properly.
 

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I was at the one day seminar; and I am playing them on my living room as I type this.

Definitely more informative than the ****y Comedy discs. I remember the seminar on Body Language being very good back in late January. Couple of great speakers add some value to some specific situations. Mystery talks about body language in clubs and bars, etc.
 

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I bought the ****y comedy dvds and there was 1 bonus body language dvd in it. It was very short though, like only 20 minutes long.

Can anyone be kind enough to post the link to where I can buy the body language program?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I've seen the body language set & found it lacking. It's 10% DeAngleo & 90% guests.
The things they were teaching were pretty much common sense (don't look down, lift your chest etc)
Although the Mystery presentation was money.
I'm much more interested in the Deep Inner Game [MindOS] set he's just released.

Here's the Url for Body Language BTW
http://www.doubleyourdatingadvice.com/e/10000/BodyLanguage/
 
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