is date flaking the same as sex flaking and do u treat her the same?

[pete101]

this girl has flaked on me 3 times now and normally u just next a flake.. the different is it's not a date shes flaking on, it's sex.

we had our 2nd date yesterday and was suppose to come round tonight for sex but she's flaked again when i told her explicitly that she's used up all her cancellations (4 in total now) if she thinks im only after one thing is this why she's flaking?

she had reservations yesterday about not being one of those slvtty girls and may think i think she's one of those but do i still treat her the same way.. i.e. ignore her?

if i dont come back she'll think i was only after one thing and not willing to put in the effort.. i got mad at her for flaking a 4th time but then i realise she might think it's cos she thinks im after one thin only..

 

[RedHand]

man, catch her somewhere and just hang out with her, without setting sex up..

it makes things so predictable and boring for her, it's not even funny. that's why shes flaking

 

[pete101]

but is sex flaking the same as date flaking?

that's the question.. if a girl cancels on you and doesn't offer another time you're suppose to next her. but does that include for sex?

i'm talking about right at the beginning of dating where you haven't slept with each other yet and she's not ready. i gave this girl 3 cancellations and she did it a 4th time and i just told her off cos she keeps breaking her promises.

but i realised after i came across as pushy only cos it was for sex, and did not see from her perspective that she's not ready and would not offer another time. do u still next girls who do this?