"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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is complimenting a girl and her parents on her name a good idea?

Rayneveres

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for example;


Me: "hey, my name is <Ray> what's yours?"
Her: "<Angela>"
Me: "<Angela>? that's a nice name. your parents must have good taste"



or something similar.
i've read it's not best to give direct compliments on her appearance, and was wondering if that would do.

while i'm at it i may as well ask another. would i be coming on too strong if i followed up with the "personality matching her pretty face" phrase?
as you can probably tell, i'm rather new at this, but you can't fault a guy for wanting to improve, =D.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Rayneveres

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12 views minus my own? come on, one of you has to have some kind of kind of insight here.
 

Michele l'Arcangelo

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No.

"Angela? That's an awesome name! We need more parents who know how to give typical names like that!"

But, I still wouldn't be throwing out some C&F remarks out until you actually get into an actual conversation, so you can gauge how well they would respond.

Go read some articles on the mainsite and use the forum after you read most of them.
 
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