Dhoulmagus
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I've been to the bars with her and her friends before, but idk if this is a girls night out occasion or not.
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Is celebrating your 21st birthday at the bars a girls night out thing
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
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Girls night aka she might get banged by some other dude. Yeah man be sure you're spinning some plates especially if she's a girls night out type of girl. Also of course her 21st bday isn't a girls night out you'd think she'd want her bf around alas anything can become a girls night out to a girl who doesn't want you around including hanging out with other guys "sorry baby girls night out."
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With due respect OP, you're thinking like a girl.
Who gives half a flying f*ck what occasion it is... just turn up, entertain the crowd, flirt with every chick in plain sight, regardless of if you find them attractive, and whoever you wanna go home with will be begging you to do so.
Who gives half a flying f*ck what occasion it is... just turn up, entertain the crowd, flirt with every chick in plain sight, regardless of if you find them attractive, and whoever you wanna go home with will be begging you to do so.
My ex spent her 21st birthday with me and the day before. New years eve and a girl's birthday are extremely important in their minds for whatever reason...your not spending those nights with your girlfriend your just BEGGING for her to get plowed by some other dude.
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
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