"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Is Big Sean a DJ

GeoMan

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- Nicknames himself Sean Don.
- Claimed that a breakup gave him to motivation to make it big
- Is 27 and only had two LTR claiming he was too busy working on himself
- Rich and succesful
- Dedicates himself to his work and hobby (rap)
- Succesful with woman(obviously)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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amazingswayze

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Big Sean probably doesn't know about SoSuave but an argument can be made that he's living the life of a Don Juan. You make some good points. He probably wouldn't call himself a Don Juan though. He's just a young man living out his dreams.
 

bensimsJYG

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Didn't Ariana cheat on Big Sean with the Weeknd?

But other than that (if it's true), I would agree. Play No Games is a pretty good example of him being a DJ
 

Lozboss

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His songs are all about the DJ mindset. Defo a DJ
 

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Haha I have been saying this for a long time.

He def embodies everything a DJ is.

"Girls keep giving me their heart, how can I not break that sheet".

"Working on myself and that's the greatest work even if you don't get paid for it."

Do you know he's always the first to walk on a relationship?

He's a good example.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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