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iS BeInG JeALouS 100% UnNaTraCtiVe?!?!?

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iS BeInG JeALouS 100% UnNaTraCtiVe?!?!?

it's an interesting topic, c'mon! :)

thanks dj's

buz
 

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Jealousy is fine and women actually enjoy it when they know that their guy is jealous. It shows them that the guy cares about them, why else would they bring up old boyfriends or tell us about the guy that flirted with them on the elevator at work?

What they don't like is AFCs that can not handle their jealousy and go off the deep end and get angry. Instead of getting angry they would prefer some type of reassurance about how we feel about them.

Unfortunately, AFCs do not understand this and attempt to avoid jealousy altogether in the most part because they can not redirect their anger. If used correctly, jealousy can easily boost a woman's ego and interest level.
 
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I... fvcking.... hate.... females. EEEEEERGHH!!!! Why do they keep DOING that?? :rolleyes: :D
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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Can you give some examples on how to use jealousy to your advantage?

I'm working on a sunshine girl and I just dont look jealous at all. Well I dont really care.
 

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I absolutely hate demonstrating my jealousy to a woman. What I mean is this: I don’t (and can’t) 100% hide my jealous feelings from her, but I will try my best to avoid her knowing that I am jealous. There are so many women in this world that being depressed and or jealous over one sounds utterly ridiculous. Jealousy doesn’t make you Challenging to her and it makes you lose control over the relationship. I know this sounds like a paradox. Why would you allow her to go out and have fun without you, doesn’t this mean that you’ve lost control? No. It is a paradox, you see, we chase that which flees from us. In not being overly jealous, you seem unattainable (i.e., your heart and mind), uncontrollable and therefore a Challenge. Should she go out anyway, find someone else and then dump you, this will be a blessing in disguise, because she never really liked you and would have thus treated you badly. So rejoice, recoup and remain confident!
 

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By jealously, I assume you're talking about being 'jealous' of guys who want to bang the girl that you're already banging, so the term doesn't make much sense. After all, aren't they the jealous ones? I think what y'all are talking about is showing one's insecurities about being inferior to other male suitors which we should all know is AFC and therefore unattractive as hell.
 

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No, sometimes being jealous is just being realistic. Unless you truly are not jealous. If you are just PRETENDING or forcing yourself to not be jealous, then you're just kidding yourself. If she's putting herself in a situation that makes you feel jealous, you have to put your foot down and if the female is into you enough, she will respect your wishes, as long as they're not too ridiculous. And if she doesn't or accuses you of being jealous, then go find someone else who'll be sensitive to your feelings.
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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Originally posted by digitalrat
Can you give some examples on how to use jealousy to your advantage?
Take a look at the attached thread posted a couple of months ago. I tell about an instance where my GF tried to make me jealous and I eventually play along.

Jealous Guys
 
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