Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Dude, gatekeeping.
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
This is really all that is, at least in general. The girlfriends of your bros usually are pretty handy regarding introductions,
It may have been the “how” instead of the “what”?
the entire point of his board is to analyze and overthink
That is a bit harsh. This is especially coming from a point where women, including average looking women do not find most men attractive. Unless you are a Chad/Chadlite, then you are not going to be able to have female friends in the first place since they are looking for the hottest guys. How does that work shaming sub-5 looking guys who are getting rejected and then saying they can't even manage a friendship?
Any friend can make a woman low quality. I would take a girl with male friends that are validated over a girl with toxic female friends that put her in the position of bad decisions.The counter argument I'd like to present is that when threads are started about the desired traits of quality/marriage material women, somewhere in top 5 - no male friends - is listed. So we know deep down that women with male friends are generally speaking low quality. Are those women the kind of social proof you want?
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
And in fairness to the ladies, keeping company with the wrong women really can end just as unpleasantly for them https://motherless.com/7DEB0F5 as it can for us