Is being "bigger" down there truly better?

[Lexington]

The better your sexual performance, the more a girl will brag about how "big" you are. If you wail on her like a stud, she's going to tell her friends that you're well hung.

Like many things, girls don't truly know what they like. Girls say they want a big d*ck? Yeah well they also describe the traits of an AFC when asked what they want in a man. I our society it is widely believed that having a big d*ck means that you are better in bed. So girls say that's what they want.

Having a big d*ck wasn't always considered a good thing. The Greeks and the Romans thought it was "barbaric" to have a large penis. Have you ever noticed that Greek, Roman and Renaissance statues aren't exactly well hung? Many of these statues were considered to represent the ideal male body form.

Basically, as long as you're not tiny, you don't have anything to worry about. Focus on your technique and your stamina. I guarantee you that if you're good in bed, a girl will brag to her friends about how "big" you are.

 

[kingsam]

Having a big d*ck wasn't always considered a good thing. The Greeks and the Romans thought it was "barbaric" to have a large penis. Have you ever noticed that Greek, Roman and Renaissance statues aren't exactly well hung? Many of these statues were considered to represent the ideal male body form.

most of the statues that their penises removed during the victorian age as they were considered "too rude" and didnt fit with the christian beleifs of the time

 

[nismo-4]

It is, but do you know how to use it? That's the question. If you're average, you better know how to work it or you'll get bad press.

I wonder what the best penis enhancement pills are to get like pornstars?

Sounds like this should be in Health & Fitness.

 

[brokenupinside]

Ok,first off I'd like to say I've heard both from women,large is better and average is better.
A lot of it is psychological,seeing the larger penis may make them fantasize about whatever but as one girl put it "the first 7in were heaven and then it started to hurt.Of course there are large vaginas out there whose owners should look into reburbishing,vaginal rejuvenation....and by the way get all that "bacon lips" outta there too.
If you are large good luck finding a girl that would do anal but there are women that will fit a baseball bat.
What good is large if you last 2 min?
What god is large if your erection is soft?
Of course there are men out there I believe that have everything,money,looks and size.....gosh bless.

LAst fook date I had with my gf I made her squirt without doing the grafenberg spot thing....and I'm average,the secret is IF they are into YOU...and for one nighters or club p/ups if their first words to you are "how big are you,I'm looking for a 12"...say yes if you got it and if you don't say pass,who cares really.

 

[eaglez1177]

It is, but do you know how to use it? That's the question. If you're average, you better know how to work it or you'll get bad press.

I wonder what the best penis enhancement pills are to get like pornstars?

Sounds like this should be in Health & Fitness.

Lol yea i've always wondered if pornstars were just born with those huge d*cks or they take pills or sumtin

 

[comic_relief]

Study after study shows women would rather have GIRTH than LENGTH.

I have a human sexuality class right now and most of the girls in the class say its nice to have length but it is better to have girth.

- comic_relief

 

[Ease]

my friend wants to know what should you do if you got a tiny ****?

This guy clearly just invented a friend.

Mine is around 6 i think. In and around average. Big enough to cause serious gag noises when i shove my girls head down all the way.

 

[SmoothTalker]

The only thing I have to say is that women do talk about it and some put importance on it. Like tonight I overheard these 2 girls I know and one of them was saying the main reason she wants to keep dating this guy is because he has a big ****. But other than that I have no idea if it's important or not, personally I wouldn't worry about it, not much you can do about it.

Nonsense. Sure you will hear women saying that, but just remember, humans rationalize EVERYTHING we do, and women are especially bad for it.

"Oh yeah I know I'm stealing, but the music industry is making too much money anyway!"

or "Yeah I cheated on him, but he treated me badly so he deserved it." And so on.

So, her friends don't think highly of her guy, and she's been bad mouthing him to them. But the truth is he's actually higher value than she wants to admit and so she wants to stay with him. How does she save face in this case? Well, "I don't even like him but he's so amazing in bed/ His **** is huge!" seem like good go-to reasons. They 'justify' her actions yet still make it sound like she's not emotionally into him and just using him.

I learned this when rumour had it (and then emails forwarded back to me by some friends confirmed it) that an ex of mine was telling people she hated me but the only reason we were together was because I could make her *** like nobody else and "his **** is huge and he knows how to use it."

Funny, after we actually broke up and she started hating me, she was telling people that I wasn't that good in bed anyway and definitely not huge.

Which is it? I'm only a tiny bit above average and while I seem to get pretty good reactions from girls in bed, I am not sure it's anything legendary at the moment.

And yet, that's what she was saying.


Another girl I witnessed talking about her future bf while they were hooking up and not dating said "he's very small, doesn't know how to use it, and it hurt a lot when he tried to finger me".
Funny not even a month later they were in a relationship and suddenly apparently this guy was the best sex she's ever had, he "lasts for hours and I have like 10 orgasms every time". Now, maybe he's the quickest learner in the world, but somehow I'm unconvinced.

TL/DR don't listen to **** women say in cases like this.

 

[Leporello]

Obviously if it's too small she won't feel anything...but after a certain point it probably doesn't make much of a difference.

Keep in mind, though - women have different-sized pvssies. the 90-pound virgin with a small pvss might find six inches overwhelming, while the girl who weighs 120 lbs. and has slept with 10 guys might find it meh.

 

[Falcon25]

The better your sexual performance, the more a girl will brag about how "big" you are. If you wail on her like a stud, she's going to tell her friends that you're well hung.

Like many things, girls don't truly know what they like. Girls say they want a big d*ck? Yeah well they also describe the traits of an AFC when asked what they want in a man. I our society it is widely believed that having a big d*ck means that you are better in bed. So girls say that's what they want.

Having a big d*ck wasn't always considered a good thing. The Greeks and the Romans thought it was "barbaric" to have a large penis. Have you ever noticed that Greek, Roman and Renaissance statues aren't exactly well hung? Many of these statues were considered to represent the ideal male body form.

Basically, as long as you're not tiny, you don't have anything to worry about. Focus on your technique and your stamina. I guarantee you that if you're good in bed, a girl will brag to her friends about how "big" you are.

Greeks and Romans mostly prefered homosexuality. So let's not bring them up.

 

[drewsg]

Greeks and Romans mostly prefered homosexuality. So let's not bring them up.

:crackup: I wouldn't say preferred, but it was definitely more acceptable.

In the case. If a woman loves you and is feeling you, then it doesn't matter what your size is as long as you can make what you have work.

On the other hand, nearly all women will tell you if she's out for a hookup or to get laid, then size most definitely matters.

 

[BigJimbo]

I am that dude who has to use two hands to urinate. It sucks because I can't use the public urinals without the fellows around me looking sideways as I take two steps back before pulling out my love muscle. So, I usually just head for a stall or pee-pee in a trash can if nobody is looking.

Now you know where the name, "BigJimbo" came from.

 

[CuriousGirl]

Doesn't matter. They all feel big if you ask me, at the end of the day they're all bigger than the vagina. I don't think I've been with someone 'big' but I imagine it would hurt. But I heard somewhere that if you are sleeping with the same guy alot your vagina kinda moulds to his penis.....I really don't know how true that is so don't quote me on that, could be a load of bollocks.

 

[comic_relief]

How good is a 5 incher?

average, the average is about 5.1 inches "give or take .2 inches"

that is from my human sexuality class.

- comic_relief

 

[comic_relief]

Doesn't matter. They all feel big if you ask me, at the end of the day they're all bigger than the vagina. I don't think I've been with someone 'big' but I imagine it would hurt. But I heard somewhere that if you are sleeping with the same guy alot your vagina kinda moulds to his penis.....I really don't know how true that is so don't quote me on that, could be a load of bollocks.

Basically, the girl's vagina gets stretched to accommodate the penis. Once no longer being with the person, than it goes back to its original shape after not being used for so long.

- comic_relief

 

[Maxtro]

average, the average is about 5.1 inches "give or take .2 inches"

that is from my human sexuality class.

- comic_relief

5 inches is indeed average although that is the non-bone-pressed measurement. Meaning that measurement is received if you put a ruler on top of your penis and do not press the ruler into the pubic bone. The problem with that measurement style is that it is affected by fat. If a guy is overweight it may look like his penis is smaller than it really is because it is being hidden by a layer of fat. Most likely when a study claims that the average size is 5 inches, they are measuring non-bone-pressed.

The proper way to measure is to press the ruler into your pubic bone, through the layer of fat. With this method it doesn't matter how much fat you have, it doesn't affect your penis length. The erect penis does not shrink. Most likely when a study claims that the average size is 6 inches, they are measuring bone-pressed.

So here's how it breaks down.

Average non-bone-pressed 5 inches
Average bone-pressed 6 inches

This means that the average man has a 1 inch layer of fat in his pubic "fat pad."

How to measure Not safe for work.

 

[snowdog]

How do you know that it doesn't matter if you've never had sex with a girl before?

See, as a virgin, THIS is exactly the kind of advice that you should not be spewing on these forums.

As a virgin, you really should have nothing to say about this topic.

In response to this thread, nothing turns a girl on more than thinking that a guy has a huge c0ck.......they will practically overlook everything personality and looks related if they think your c0ck is big. When it comes to the sex itself, a decent sized 6 - 7 inches is good for going balls deep into a pvssy...........if you are more like 8 or 9 inches, you might not be able to go in all the way, which will actually hinder YOUR pleasure, unless you are dealing with a loose chick.

All in all, its a complicated matter with different factors, something that an inexperienced virgin has NO BUSINESS even stating an opinion on.

PERIOD.

Eat sh*t, pal.

This is common knowledge. The sky is blue, water is wet, **** size don't matter.

 

[JD83]

This is a topic that I do know about. Trust me. Size DOES matter. Its like anything else. If you are a guy like me, booty and tits matter. Girls are sexual just like us. We have the advantage of measuring their goods without them having to take their clothes off of course. When a girl sees your size, she will notice. I have been with plenty of girls who have told me that their last guy was small. It was funny cuz one of those guys was 6'3 tall. They were talking about his **** of course.

Here is some good news though. Length does not matter as much as THICKNESS. You still have to be average in length but thickness is what turns girls on the most. It makes them wanna (as one girl put it) "lick it" like an ice cream. So if you are not 10 inches long (or whaterver other exaggerations guys claim) don't worry about it as long as your thing is thick.

 

[eaglez1177]

I'm gonna say size does matter because having a thicker d*ck than someone else is obviously a larger size. Girls definitely love thicker d*cks imo.

 

[imarockstar]

yea ive had this discussion before. chicks i work with talk about small, nice, and big. apparently mines nice, little over 6.5 and like 5.5 around i dont know its been a while since i measured.

IMO i think that women use a big **** as bragging rights to their friends. its just something that is appealing. its something different, since its above average less guys have big ****s. im cool with having a nice one though, seems like this is what chicks prefer.

also, i was talking to this real slvtty girl at my work. we got on the subject of it and she said shes been surprised by a couple guys with small ****s. did they have average girth? possibly, so it really doesnt matter. maybe guys with small ****s just lack confidence in the department so they dont think theyll be able to please her, thus making it a reality. the couple guys this girl fvcked prob just didnt give a damn, and were able to please her.

dont worry about this stupid sh*t