Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Is attraction to young women a "problem" caused by living in an age of long life?

MatureDJ

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I was perusing this article & video about teenage girls being recruited for modeling.

http://www.nytimes.com/2012/09/12/opinion/teenage-girls-audition-to-be-models-in-siberia.html

There was this comment

And concerning comments about attraction to girls in this age group, let’s not forget that through the vast majority of human history, girls of this age (and a few years older) – NOT women from 30-50 -- were undoubtedly the primary producers of children because so many young women died from childbirth or disease. Evidently men have found girls and very young women attractive for hundreds of thousands of years, and we can't expect male biology to change at the revolutionary pace at which modern science has prolonged our life expectancy. In the context of the very long history of human reproduction, women (and men) above 40 are practically a new invention!

We’re still adjusting to the problems and opportunities that our “abnormally” long life spans have brought us, and the exploitation of young women everywhere is definitely one of the problems.
So basically, we are attracted to young women, and not cougars, because back in the old days there were hardly any women old enough to be cougars, and male contemporaries of them in any case? And that since we are living to a longer age, we older men should be attracted to out cougar contemporaries - but that it's just that pesky evolutionary instinct that makes us want to nail young women?

I'm sorry, I think this is just another form of shaming. :down:

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First from a man

These girls are in the flower of reproductive maturity, and there’s a reason why many men (I’d venture to say all men, at some level) find young ladies like these very attractive indeed. If you don’t like this state of affairs, then take it up with a million years of evolution, not with the fashion industry!
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At that age I found guys like you creepy. Wonder where evolution comes into it from that angle ....
 

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When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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MatureDJ said:
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At that age I found guys like you creepy. Wonder where evolution comes into it from that angle ....
Oh thats simple darling...you as woman don't get to have an 'angle' you get to have whatever your father or husband chooses to give you....as it should be.

for 99.9% of our evolutionary history women were the property of men...so likely your father would have sold you to a husband who would then assume ownership of you.

when society breaks down this will once more be the norm.

now shut up and get in the kitchen biyach. :crackup:
 

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Dear MDJ,
Not all older Men are attracted to Young Women....Probably it's having a couple of my own daughters,but they do nothing for me...Whilst in Bed many will be great fun,there are just as many who are clumsy,prudish and down right pig ignorant.....And while you may spend fourty minutes screwing,what do you do then?....So many airheads,the intelligent being besotted with crazy ideas they learnt in "Wimmins Studies"...No give me a Worldly Couger any day!
 

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The idea that people didn't live long is an invention of the agricultural revolution. Hunter gatherer societies see people living to 70-80 easily with no modern medicine. Only when we started settling down and farming did we start dying a lot earlier.
 

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I came from traditional culture when women don't work , woman asset is her fertility , the much woman has fertile years the much her value is high , if a woman passed 25 year old she will find it is hard to marry a decent man because no man there marry woman older than 25 unless he is a loser or have some problems that prevent him from having a young woman .

women know this fact and try to convect a man to love older women , but that wont work our genes know who is very fertile and who is not fertile .
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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After puberty girls are willing and able to have sex and children..

after puberty a girl becomes a woman age 13-14, this cannot be changed regardless of how much an industrialized bank controlled fascist state might want it.....for millions of years humans lived by this natural truth...

the months after puberty is the only time women can bond to a mate fully...after this women become wholly opportunists without any underlying feeling.

the fact that our society has extended 'childhood' well past this date is a the principle cause why men and women can never connect....

the train has long left the station age 13, by the time most girls around age 21-25 might think of a long term relationship...now its more like age 30....only a 100 years ago a girl would have had 4-8 children by age 24.

this is not progress...this is regression.

This is the reality...only a 100 years ago a successful businessman of 35 could easily find a bride of age 14 or 15....17 would be old! to bear him many healthy children and be bonded to him for life..nowadays the 35 year old is shamed into dating no younger than 28 or else suffer the wrath of womenkind and the faggot beta males that surround him.
 

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This is the reality...only a 100 years ago a successful businessman of 35 could easily find a bride of age 14 or 15....17 would be old! to bear him many healthy children and be bonded to him for life..nowadays the 35 year old is shamed into dating no younger than 28 or else suffer the wrath of womenkind and the faggot beta males that surround him.
still happening today in a lot of cultures
 
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