"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Is ART HURTING MY CHANCES?

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I go to art school so there is a stereotype that goes along with that. People from other schools think that we dont normally like to have fun and ****... I think :crackup: but yeah the people at the dorms think we are just on crack and we are non social I believe it is have ing real affect for my game. So like im thinking of transfering to a bigger school like metro so I can get the social life that im looking for a penny for your thoughts plz.



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check out my art at http://www.brickfish.com/Pages/PhotosAlbums/PhotoView.aspx?picid=210914_88944420&pid=227970&scid=165
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Are you seeking social acceptance or are you looking to better your life!!!
 

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I'm a Laker fan, awesome drawing
 

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Have you taken your sketch book out clubbing with you? Can you imagine ANY girl NOT wanting to pose for you???? Tell them you need them to pose nude! Worked for me when I was in art school.
 

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I think that one of the famous sosuave Master Bible guys went to art school. He said it was one of the best ideas, because you are surrounded by women.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Women love artists. You can game art women, other women, any women you want, just bring up that you're an artist. You have an edge over other guys.
 

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Last Man Standing said:
Are you seeking social acceptance or are you looking to better your life!!!
Or are the two the same? (Rhetorical question, haha).

But yeah do what Mr. Wolf said, play it to your advantage. Do a quick sketch of the girl, maybe mess up a few features on purpose to make it funny, and your in!
 

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Warriors > Lakers.

And don't be a scrubbed out, pothead looking ass. Keep a clean composure and high level of sophistication.

But then again, being a little out there can work very well too. Depends on you.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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iqqi said:
I think that one of the famous sosuave Master Bible guys went to art school. He said it was one of the best ideas, because you are surrounded by women.
Pook. The greatest DJ of all.
 

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My mother always told us, "with art- do it for fun....just don't make a living of it."

How RIGHT she is! Unless you have incredible connections in the art industry- do it as a novelty. The business is saturated with unrecognized, great talent.

To me- art school is a complete waste of money.
 

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Does it really matter what other people think about your school? They don't know you! Just prove them wrong by being fun and outgoing. Not to get their acceptance but, for yourself.
 

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trojanman88 said:
I go to art school so there is a stereotype that goes along with that. People from other schools think that we dont normally like to have fun and ****... I think :crackup: but yeah the people at the dorms think we are just on crack and we are non social I believe it is have ing real affect for my game. So like im thinking of transfering to a bigger school like metro so I can get the social life that im looking for a penny for your thoughts plz.



p.s.

check out my art at http://www.brickfish.com/Pages/PhotosAlbums/PhotoView.aspx?picid=210914_88944420&pid=227970&scid=165
When I was your age, I didn't have time for a social life. You kids these days.

Actually, the issue was that everyone was so overworked that if you helped others out, your grades would suffer. I don't think I slept a normal sleep for two years because my art school trained me to be a habitual insomniac.

But, we still managed to get some fun stuff in. My friend and I were huge pranksters, so if we had a few minutes, we'd come up with a prank that wouldn't take a lot of time.

Now, the only stereotype that I felt we guys encountered was that "male artist" = "big flaming gay guy" which believe it or not, wasn't always true.

But as far as being anti social, not really. A few of us were huge geeks, but other than that... I would hang out with most f the guys in my class and feel comfortable just hanging out. So yeah, it was hard to do, but we got some fun in. If it's iimportant enough, you'll figure out a way. Just don't over do it. College isn't just for the parties. If you've got a great college that challenges you, you enjoy the work, and you have friends, don't go to a lesser school just because thhe parties are better.
 

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I believe it is have ing real affect for my game.
your game ?!?!?!!? WTF are you talking about ?

How does being an artist that attends an art school affect your game ??..YOU NEVER HAD GAME TO BEGIN WITH !

So like im thinking of transfering to a bigger school like metro so I can get the social life that im looking for
what idiot chooses schools by how much partying they can do ???

Being an illustrator and concept designer myself I can say that my choice in careers has never earned me a bad rap with anyone. Most people don't have any genuine interest in art but they also don't stereotype you unless you give them a reason.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Young brother, I'm in the market for a portrait of Andy Moog and Ray Bourque from thier Boston Bruins days.

I try not to solicite this way but damn you have a great eye for composition and lighting.

Let me know if you're interested because I certainly am.

Now, on to your dilemma. You have to realize it's us artists who have seperated the cavemen from neanderthals. Art seperates those who can only conquer through brute force rather than those who battle with our intellect and unbridled enthusiasm. The caveat being you must be an artist for art's sake. Not for attention and certainly not for a woman. Make your art for the passion of it.
 

trojanman88

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Drum&Bass said:
your game ?!?!?!!? WTF are you talking about ?

How does being an artist that attends an art school affect your game ??..YOU NEVER HAD GAME TO BEGIN WITH !
lol haha nice one
 
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