"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Is anyone else like this?

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Sargeholic

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I am a WBAFC at approaching and a DJ at dating. I am the friggin man when I can get a date, usually through friends or online PU, but I am a fiasco when it comes to approaching in field. I can turn a date into at least a makeout at about a 80-90% clip, but I can't even say hello to a girl on the street.

Anyone had experience with this problem?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Yep, don't know what to do about it though.

I guess you just need to get more practice cold approaching until you are better at it..
 
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brenbaus

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you know what they say

"Ubung mach dein meiseter"
translated to:
"Practice makes the master"

pretty self explanitory
 
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