"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Is ANY dating coach actually effective?

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That is the biggest critique of Rollo Tomassi. He's been married to the same woman since 1996, which is now 25+ years. He probably started dating her around 1993-1994, which means ~30 years in the same LTR.
When I’m in a relationship I find myself having to win her over and over again. In a constant state of crisis to reach my next highest self.

A relationship is not an opportunity to “relax” and let yourself go. That’s how you get dumped. A relationship is a microscope that zooms into all your strengths and weaknesses. You are literally being observed with a microscope.

So I have a lot of respect for men in Relationships with quality women. They prove day in and day out they are the MAN.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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If a dating coach does not tell you that you have to work on your finances, social life, and fitness, he’s not worth anything. And you don’t need a dating coach to tell you this.

Your ancestors survived millions of years without dating coaches, at the end of the day, it’s about how much of a survivor you are.

And a true survivor does not pay for a dating coach.

If you are soft, then that’s your problem, not a lack of theories and tactics.
 

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If a dating coach does not tell you that you have to work on your finances, social life, and fitness, he’s not worth anything. And you don’t need a dating coach to tell you this.

Your ancestors survived millions of years without dating coaches, at the end of the day, it’s about how much of a survivor you are.

And a true survivor does not pay for a dating coach.

If you are soft, then that’s your problem, not a lack of theories and tactics.
right on bro
 
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