Is all hope lost?

[smitty665]

A few months ago, I met a girl that I became really good friends with. We started talking alot, doing stuff together, all that good stuff. I knew she did like me as more than a friend but a couple things were in my way (she didn't like to date, also liked another guy, family issues). I started to become insecure and worrying all the time, and I started to treat her like were we dating. Being over-protective, paranoid, starting issues with my friends, making situations out of innocent things. I know she was really turned off by everything. I see now what I did wrong, and am going to make sure I don't act like that again. We're still friends now, but she feels nothing more. What can I do from here? Is all hope at a relationship lost??

 

[One on One]

Originally posted by smitty665
Is all hope at a relationship lost??

A long mother****in time ago!

 

[trajhenkhet]

Nothing is impossible for a DJ but its going to be up to you to show her you have a pair and their going to have to be made of some sort of metal...I have a similar situation going on with a lady I'm going to a Rodeo club with. I've never done line or square dancing in my life but I try dancing, even when she is not around me at the club I hung out with the dance instructors quite a bit. I talk to her friends quite a bit. Flirt with her, just don't spend the evening doing it. Also slow dance with her once ot twice. Not every slow song either. In fact I'd ask other ladies at the club for a slow dance just because just to show her that your not clingy and bold in new surroundings. Plus, if it don't work out, you will be acquainted with some new prospect

 

[smitty665]

Hung out with her again, had much more confidence and was alot more laid back and funny then I had been in the past. Definately turned her on. Where to go from here? How are my chances looking (over time?)

 

[drZaius09]

Yes, quite.