Is a man wanting a paternity test being "immature"?

[MatureDJ]

Evidently a lot of the commenters for this advice posting think so ...

http://www.netmums.com/coffeehouse/...ants-dna-test-done-i-haven-t-cheated-all.html

 

[Alvafe]

not, but its saying he thinks she was/ is sleeping around, also it harder for you belive she is preg if you use condoms

 

[Scormus]

Why are these women so upset? It boggles me.

 

[speed dawg]

This is exactly why you take care of your sh*t on your end and don't rely on women. Introducing kids complicates things. At the very least, this proves that one more kid is going to be brought into this world in a terrible environment. Pretty obvious there is no trust in this relationship, so I highly doubt it lasts. Damn shame.

 

[betheman]

He is 20? so yeah, he will be immature, those women sound so self righteous as if there is never any doubt in any pregnancy! well the stats are around 10% of children born are not the biological children of the man who thinks he is the father, for that alone I would always get a test.
if the boot was on the other foot and men having the kids, you can bet your sweet ar5e that women would be insisting on it

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

these folks seem like the kind of trailer trash you see on Jerry Springer yelling at each other.

Of course they are going to take the stand that they are.

Young girl gets pregnant - she's suddenly some kind of super hero that is entitled to HIS money as well as taxpayers money, and she is magically off the hook for EVER having to be responsible. Especially if she's single. After all, single moms are the bedrock angels of society.

Young guy gets a girl pregnant - He's an evil doer of the worst kind, needs to "grow up" in a hurry and "become responsible." He's the scourge of society and should be ashamed of himself.

 

[Peaks&Valleys]

well the stats are around 10% of children born are not the biological children of the man who thinks he is the father

This is true. And you know when it's discovered that the dad isn't their biological parent? When he needs a kidney transplant and the son offers his up.

"Sorry kid, you can't donate your kidney, he's going to die. But good news, you don't have to worry about it....he's not really your dad!!"

 

[Scaramouche]

Dear MDJ,
I don't think this couple are trailer trash,probably quite nice working class people....Of course he is immature...20 for crying out lot loud and saddled with a wife and kids,living in parents homes...A train wreck for sure,a forced marriage like this is doomed...London to a Brick this Girl is a naive young innocent who one night got unlucky...Best she just gives the kid for adoption,but no,that wont happen.....Her Mum will end up carrying the bundle...Pathetic Huh?

 

[iamnobody]

Immature? No. Wise? Yes.

 

[( . )( . )]

If you are single and the girl gets pregnant, you NEED to get a paternity test!

Unless you live in France, in which case your sh!t out of luck.

French government citing psychologists who state that fatherhood is determined by society rather than biology. French men often circumvent these laws by sending samples of DNA to foreign laboratories, but risk prosecution if caught. The maximum penalty for carrying out secret paternity testing is one year in prison and a 15,000-Euro fine

 

[Alvafe]

Unless you live in France, in which case your sh!t out of luck.

yeah in france, I think most people there have affairs or they society are more lenient there for it, serious when I read that the first time, I was like, so no child support too? nope you still have to.... and since they ban any parental tests..... guess only think I can say si good think i'm not french....

 

[PlayHer Man]

Better to me "immature" and know the truth than to be "mature" and end up raising another man's f*cking kid! :crazy:

Women LOVE to throw that term around --> "immature"

As if women are the ultimate authority on maturity. Any man who views women as authority figures is a f*cking moron anyway. Who the f*ck cares what women think?

 

[mrRuckus]

French government citing psychologists who state that fatherhood is determined by society rather than biology. French men often circumvent these laws by sending samples of DNA to foreign laboratories, but risk prosecution if caught. The maximum penalty for carrying out secret paternity testing is one year in prison and a 15,000-Euro fine

Sounds like a human rights violation to me. We should probably bomb them.

 

[Aubree]

In the U.S.there have been paternity cases where a man has refused to actually take the paternity test and paternity was proven based off that refusal.

I don't think you can force someone to take a paternity test. All you can do is take him to court and see what happens.
you could also test the other possible fathers and use the process of elimination.