"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Is A Male Ever A Victim of Rape By A Female?

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Le Parisien said:
Ok I don't want to sound gross or give your nightmares or anything, but just so you can understand...

Just imagine yourself being drugged up and tied up by some 50 year old fugly granny. And she plays with a beer bottle in your a** and jerks you off even though you are not liking it at all.

Would you consider it rape?:crackup:

Isn't that sort of thing called sodomy? I see people (men and women) getting convicted of that in the news............
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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The Juan and only

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wunnaBsmooth said:
Isn't that sort of thing called sodomy? I see people (men and women) getting convicted of that in the news............
Where do you live? sodomy [in any form] isn't illegal as far as I'm aware.

Provided it's consensual of course.
 

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What about when you are too intoxicated to make any decisions, and you go home with a fat, ugly beast and she takes advantage of you? This happens all the time. When it happens to a woman, charges are often pressed and arrests are made with rape allegations. I'm sure a man could never do this though. It just goes to show the double standard we have in modern day society.
 

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Rape by a female? If she's hot, I'm all for it. :rockon:
 

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Eccentric said:
Rape by a female? If she's hot, I'm all for it. :rockon:
Um.... If you are all for it, then it wouldn't be rape. I really am sick and tired of the double standard. When a woman is slapped, it is a horrible crime against humanity! But when men are raped over and over in jail or are kicked in the balls repeatedly it is funny!:rolleyes:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Rape is when someone forces you to have sex against you will. It's irrelevant whether you like it or not.

If you don't want to have sex with someone and they force you too, that's against the law. It's not a matter of whether it feels good, its a matter of if you want to.
 

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The Juan and only said:
Where do you live? sodomy [in any form] isn't illegal as far as I'm aware.

Provided it's consensual of course.

It's actually illegal in most states in the United States.
 

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Can men be raped

Juan_Man said:
Just curious as to what your thoughts are?

I think that if the guy is at least 15, NEVER!
Okay, Juan_man, just think about the situation where you are in prison and a man rams his penis into your arse and ****s you. Do you not think that is rape?

In the case of women raping a man it is much rarer but there are cases of it happening and just because the man gets an erection does not mean that it is consentual sex. In the past it has been argued during women's rape cases that as the woman had an orgasm it must have been consentual, but again that is not always the case. An orgasm, like a male's ejaculation, is a physical response to stimulation. A man can be stimulated to orgasm without his permission and so can a woman.

So, yes, men can be raped and not all sex is enjoyable for a man or a woman. Only inexperienced men can think otherwise.

You can read my views on many subjects on my blog.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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The Truth said:
He apparently tried to press charges against the women, but it didn't even make it to court because the photos showed that he was erect and it would be difficult to prove he was not consenting.
I don't see why him having an erection should make any difference. I've heard that when women are raped, they still get physically stimulated. I thought this was supposedly one of the terrible aspects of rape - that this gets taken from them, that their body responds against their will.

What I don't understand is why a woman can cry rape if she is drunk, but a man can't. Both their judgements are clouded, they both willingly drank the alcohol, why is only the man responsible for his actions? This is one of my biggest pet peeves, it's total BS.
 

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Wow, 8.5 year necro, pretty damn impressive. Don't know if I've ever seen longer. <golfclap> to AngelaGoodnightBlog
 
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