Is a girl escalating quickly normal?

[LP700-4]

Last week Thursday, I met this really cute girl while I was waiting in line at a parking office. We had a great conversation and she even gave me her phone number without me asking. I told her that if we ever get out of this line, we should hang out sometime and she said sure. I didn't text or call her all weekend because I left my phone at home while I traveled this weekend.

When I got back on Sunday, I saw two texts that came from her on Saturday. The first saying "hey". A few mins later she had texted "How are you? I just wanted to see your smile again " I didn't respond on Sunday because I was tired. On Monday she texted "...." and I replied. I didn't explain why I ignored her texts and just asked if she was up for grabbing dinner tomorrow and she said "How about I come over and cook you dinner and we could watch that movie I told you about?" I said "Sure."

I've rarely been in a situation where I didn't have to even use my own game. I literally had one friendly conversation with this girl and I had no intention of picking her up yet she already wants to cook dinner for me. I know how to bed her and all that but I'm curious. Do I keep up my nonchalant attitude or do I start putting some game into it?

 

[Yewki]

Do I keep up my nonchalant attitude or do I start putting some game into it?

Sounds like you may have a stage 5 clinger. I think you should act nonchalant whether you're trying to game her or not. Never make it appear like you're trying hard.

By the way that was a great move to dismiss her "..." message, most guys would have made the mistake of trying to explain themselves.

 

[ScoundrelDays]

I just met a girl like this. She ended up freaking herself out because she apparently fell for me too quickly. Now whether that's true or a bs excuse I don't really care just giving you a heads up.

 

[teddy]

Don't know about others on here, but if a woman escalates quickly with stuff like this, it usually means she just sees you as a friend. What we view as escalating, females view as being friendly...and they can afford to seem like they're escalating because there's nothing to lose if they think you're just a friend.

However, in OP's case, I think this might just be a massive clinger.

 

[DarkDetective50]

I don't know, man. She sounds like a clinger. Tread lightly. I recommend getting all the sex out of her that you can because clingers will literally beg to swallow your c/u/m.

 

[VladPatton]

Roll with it, man! See where it takes you, it is way too soon to know what the hell is going on. Just keep it at a pace you're comfortable with.

See where this takes you, and keep us posted.

 

[LP700-4]

She came over yesterday evening. I don't know which I enjoyed more; her cooking or the sex. She's traveling out of state for the Christmas period so I won't see her again till next year.

 

[dutchmaster]

Go with the flow bro!

 

[TheCWord]

Maybe she just digs what you're putting down and sees you as a high value man who she feels she has to give lots of attention to if she is to ever have any shot of locking you down. :cheer:

 

[Uncharted]

Maybe she just digs what you're putting down and sees you as a high value man who she feels she has to give lots of attention to if she is to ever have any shot of locking you down. :cheer:

Yup she has high interest. Let it ride. You're not going to see her for a few weeks anyway. Worst case scenario she becomes too clingy and you let her go. Enjoy it in the meantime.

 

[Betterz]

Cooks well and shagz well, and is totally into you...... keeper! (well as a plate as least )

 

[Bokanovsky]

Don't overanalyze this sh!t. If she's aggressive and escalating, it means that she's horny and wants to bang. It's as simple as that.

 

[JaegerPilot217]

don't be outcome dependent and try to see where this goes but don't be surprised if she was leading you on just live n learn