is a chick that self proclaims has dated alot a redflag?

[Vantagepoint34]

ok met this new Chick the other day we had great chemistry shes super cute has her sh!t together etc etc. but she was literally telling me about like 4 of her ex bf's on the first date how they did this why they did this etc. she wasn't like talking them up she was more or less saying she has a bad dating record. like she has dated alotttt. kinda turned me off. she then texted me later that night that if I lose interest please to tell her because she is soooo used to being burned she basically sets herself up for it. are these major red flags?

Talking about her past can be seen as a mistake. There would of been a way to avoid it by stating to her in the beginning that you would like to avoid the past. Also you make it a rule on the next girl. If you bring this up to her and she would bring it up again that would be a red flag because she would be doing it to piss you off. To check if it's a red flag you could of found out what's their ages. A big red flag is if they are 1/3 years old her senior. One more thing if there was any abuse in the relationships she is close to baggage territory. As far as you described her she looks free of baggage so she probably doesn't carry it around unless she's in a rush to get into a relationship. If you had more info on how you met her it would help out too. Good Luck Ryan.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

The fact that she is female is a huge red flag that she probably has a million mental problems.

 

[derby1]

The fact that she is female is a huge red flag that she probably has a million mental problems.

agreed, i am telling OP now, she will do something and it probably wont be the end of the world to him

OP will do something menial she will paint him black JUDGE JURY EXECUTIONER and she will ghost him

just concentrate on having a good time

 

[Ryan Adams]

we met thru mutual friends at a bar. and yes she mentioned abuse about her ex bf. she said he didn't physically punch her but would push and call her a slut wh0re think she was cheating call her fat etc...

then she told me I can do whatever I want? which was weird

 

[derby1]

@Ryan Adams she is a "professional victim" telling you everything thats wrong with her life and how its EVERYONE ELSES FAULT,

Drama and Attention is a Drug to these women, Stable they are not,
They push men till breaking point so they can sit on social media all night messaging 500 men on how you hit her so they comfort her and she gets validation its NEVER THERE FAULT

Her Telling you about your driving.....shes trying to get under your skin

Do what youve been told Have a good time and BANG....Rinse and repeat DO NOT LET THIS WOMAN INTO YOUR LTR IDEAS...shell ghost you anyway as soon as you do or dont do something

 

[Ryan Adams]

yes that's alllll I'm thinking about doing with her nooooo ltr ideas whatsoever. I just don't get why she would mention "you can do whatever you want" basically saying to me im fvck other guys or wait for my ex while me and you bang". hahah or at least that's what I got out of it. I mean on the outside she seems stable she has her finances and life together for the most part owns her own house car etc.

and I'm totally cool with it. first time we banged no condom. 2nd time I know for a fact shes on birth control I came inside her.... this is after knowing each other for 2 weeks lol.

 

[Murk]

Sounds like an absolute scumbag, you're a man after my own heart.

 

[Ryan Adams]

Sounds like an absolute scumbag, you're a man after my own heart.

what?

 

[derby1]

2nd time I know for a fact shes on birth control I came inside her.... this is after knowing each other for 2 weeks lol.

this ofcourse is a good feeling, its not good to be doing this with this bird................dont listen to her words if i had a pound for every bird whos said the magic words "i only date the 1 Male" IGNORE THIS BS from the attention *****s mouth.....hook up and bang hook up and bang

 

[Ryan Adams]

that is exactly my plan I'm trying trying to see what other guys opinion on this chick. everything seems fine from the outside. she has a house car no kids etc.

 

[ubercat]

Well the b******* about your driving it's just another s*** test. Easiest response there is agree and amplify. Tell her about the 10 car pile up your crazy driving caused last week and the time you were running from Mexican drug lords. Start off by the story easy and normalish and see how long you can go before she realises you're pulling her tit.

Regarding the quality of this girl well I'd be taking her home for long romantic spanking ass f****** and facial sessions. Who knows dominate the f*** out of her and she might straighten up and fly right it can sometimes happen.

 

[Murk]

what?

You beat bareback first date, you're not taking her home to meet your old girl

 

[Ryan Adams]

it took me all of 3 weeks to smash without a condom hahah

 

[derby1]

@MidnightCity i agree...

i stated this 5 posts up drama and attention is a drug to these women,

Cycle
*find an *******
*Push him till he does something to bring out bad man
*go round 500 people getting validation.... "they are the princess" and hes the bad man
*go bk to ashole bad man

 

[Ryan Adams]

thing is she's doing exactly that....

she talks sh!t anyway she can. and when I was arguing with her playfully she literally got mad and said why are you arguing with me!! think I'm gonna stay far away from this one...

 

[derby1]

thing is she's doing exactly that....

i know thats why ive advised, ive been out with a few,

The sad thing is there usually great company, good looking, good sex , good with kids blah blah
if you are not careful she will suck you in,

it goes 1 of 2 ways with these women they either keep coming back which is no good for your mental well being (she doesnt give a fck shes a broken shell)

or one minute shes dropping paracetomol off to ya in the middle of the antarctic circle your that good!!! .......................then next minute GHOST

 

[Ryan Adams]

she's good socially physically financially she has got her sh!t together and she's very confident which is attractive. if im not careful she's gonna suck me in i can see it now

 

[ubercat]

Kid I lost 10 years of my life to this stupidity. Crazy girls are not fascinating they are just crazy.

 

[Ryan Adams]

she has every other aspect of her life together. it's just weird I guess that's why a good looking chick whose single and owns her own house is single for a reason.

 

[Masculinity]

ok met this new Chick the other day we had great chemistry shes super cute has her sh!t together etc etc. but she was literally telling me about like 4 of her ex bf's on the first date how they did this why they did this etc. she wasn't like talking them up she was more or less saying she has a bad dating record. like she has dated alotttt. kinda turned me off. she then texted me later that night that if I lose interest please to tell her because she is soooo used to being burned she basically sets herself up for it. are these major red flags?

She probably has unrealistic standards; holding men up to Disney fairy tale expectations.