"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Is 5'8 short for a male these days?

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warrior1 said:
Because I always see people mention with their preferences I want a guy that is at least 5'10. Isn't 5'9 average?

No bashing in this thread please. For instance when i look at myself in photos or in the mirror, i look a bit short. Yet how do woman who are like 5'4 may think a guy who's 5'8 be short? I mean since I am 5'8 and if i see a guy whos 5'11 he definitely looks tall.

If you are not at least 6'0 you will never have sex with a good looking girl. Give up now and go become a priest / monk / pastor. Well you might have sex if you become the last one...

You can't start a thread like this and not expect it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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silkcru007 said:
Anything 5'6 and below is SHORT.
Im 5'5 baby!:rockon:
 

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DonJuan11 said:
If you are not at least 6'0 you will never have sex with a good looking girl. Give up now and go become a priest / monk / pastor. Well you might have sex if you become the last one...

You can't start a thread like this and not expect it.

I'm living proof you're wrong. I'm 5'6.


Idiot.
 

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immrtlwun said:
Girls tend to like taller guys because they feel safer with them. Its part of a woman's instincts to choose a mate that will protect them. Being taller or more muscular helps with being perceived as a protector. So if you're shorter, you have to show in other ways that you can protect her. This doesn't mean you need to pick fights and stuff to prove your manhood, but doing other things to make up for it.
Basically height isn't going to be the determining factor in attraction, you might just have to work a little bit harder than a 6 foot guy.
Yeh! Is any of you guys able to link something of this post to TESTOSTERONE? Testosteroned males don't think like wusses and thus women COMPETE for them. Tall can translate to dominant but testosterone always tranlsates to dominant!

You guys are all making a pointless debate!!

If you believe that height is all important and that you're doomed because of your height... You're going to be insecure. And women are NOT attracted to wussies, period!!

A confident men, who thinks, knows and acts like he's the ****, doesn't matter about his height! Why should he? He's better then the other guys in some way!

Most of the guys are AFC's. I am really tall and when I was a socially insecure AFC I couldn't get any chick at all! The AMOG of my group is not tall and he gets women VERY EASILY. And I used to be very beta and most of the guys in my group were shorter then I was.

The only difference is that now I changed the way I THINK. Insecurities are insecurities, and a healthy MAN that women are looking for has confidence. Because he does something useful with his time (turn of your pc man!) and his life has some real value.

The idea that height is tremendously important has to get out of your AFC head. You don't deserve women if you let something like that get you down. Physical qualities don't make a Great man. EOD ! Go do something manly insetad of complaining, chump! :D I got no respect for people with the victim mindset (stop blaming whatever it is for your lack of sucess wimp!) and they don't deserve any either.
 

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I am 6' and my best friend in hs was probably 5'8 or 5'9. He got 50x the number of girls I got. 5'8 isnt a problem
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Who cares?
 

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Man you think you short im only 5'3 but i learn to cope with it and excel in other areas other then height
 

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If you are not super short height doesn´t matter jack sh!t.

Most guys I see with hotties are not taller than 5´8
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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DismantleRepair said:
5'8" is fine. Luckily you're still taller than most of the women you'll meet.

I'm Asian, 5'7", and I don't even think about it.
I'm only 5'6". It doesn't matter. Maybe you're attracted to women taller than you. For me I'm naturally attracted to females around 5'0" to 5'5". Around these heights, women are just beautifully stunning from head to toe.

As long as you're at least an inch taller they won't complain. You'll hear chicks say they want a gay taller than them with great body etc. That's not the majority. Most women actually don't care as long as you're not a midget compare to them.

Like Night Owl said. Work on the inner stuff!~
 

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For me 5'8 is fine and I tend to gravitate towards tall guys. I think you should start to worry when your like 5'6. 5'7 is like eh, but still passes depending on the guys qualities.
 

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at 5ft 8, with tight game, a good lifestyle and dress sense etc then you could pull any standard of woman, even the ones that "only go for tall men".
seriously.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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wutangfinancial said:
I suggest going to another country. Seriously. I mean, yeah, a guy with movie star looks can get girls at 5'8, but not a normal looking guy.

Seriously, why are you such a duchebag?
 
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