"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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is 15 to young for a 21 y.o.?

Feskaren

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I just became 21 and i like this fifteen year old girl... (going to be 16). Some weeks ago she came with a friend of mine (an 18 yo guy)and another friend and we went out together. Shes like my friends friend. I got drunk and my friend told me i hit on her... Even though i was drunk I was deliberately trying to hold back from seducing her as i know fifteen years old is very young. i must have just done some really bad afc flirting like clinging and firing off stupid "how you doin" lines instead, i was sort of half ways drunk starting to lose my judment *embarrased*

I freaked her out a little and i think she is still a little afraid that i might like her

I have been wanting to talk to her about the weekend but i dont dare when i get the opportunity, basically because i dont know what to say... i cant decide wether to make a move or excuse my behaviour and forget about trying to get her forever. I am nervous when trying to talk to her and i know it is because im a litte ashamed of wanting to slam a fifteen y.o.'

i just have this weakness for gothic/rocknroll chicks and shes so hot. 8/9 and big tits. Anyway should i end it or go for it?

don juan didnt care about right and wrong...did he? I just cant decide ARRRRGh...am i an old pig by the way?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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frivolousz21

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well in the United States..yes.

its illegal in most states..except for a couple of the country states.

but why would a grown man want to date a child?
 

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I think thats kinda creepy...

You're 21, and you have a thing for a 15 year old gothic (!!) chick. In the states if her parents found out you banged their 15 y/o daughter, you'd be big bubba's butt buddy for several years.
 

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Short answer: Yes.

Long answer: Yes, it's illegal, semi-pedophilic, and there's the danger that she'll become too attached. Plus if ANYONE found out you'd be ****ed forever.
 

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The age of consent in Norway is 16, so he'll be just fine.

But...remember that girls that age are...well...dumb. You want her, go get her, but you might just run into some social stigma. Whether you care or not is up to you, but please wait until she's sixteen before doing something sexual.

Have fun! :D
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Feskaren

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Thanks so much for your reply line_in_the_sand it really helped... and you other guys too. Nice to see another norwegian on the forum. I think i'll just say im sorry and try to make friends with her... I was jsut thinking that if she can drink like shes 18, hit the bars like shes 18 then why cant i just slam her like shes 18....Thanks for bringing me back to earth guys... its amazing what a girl can do to my reasoning skills around spring time... guess im just too horny or something... phew..
 

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listen up, im sure everyone is sick of seeing this response in every single thread but, you NEED to read the DJ bible. Here is the problem, she is 15 and you are 21. You should be able to game her without trying, what are you worried she is going to tell her other highschool girlfriends that you hit on her? This should be a piece of cake, and its a piece of cake i think you should refrain from eating. Don't get involved with the young ones, its not worth it and if she becomes unhappy you could be answering to older brothers, dads, and the faggot cops.
 

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i know lots of 14 yr old girls that have dated or have been steady with 25yr old guys... and nobody ever saw problems in that, so i can't get what's the problem between an almost 16 yr old and a boy who just turned 21... anyway, i'm from italy, maybe it's different in norway, but i doubt it
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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**** yeah 15 is too young for a 21 year old.

Dont be that guy.
 

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what's that rule? 15 will get you 20?

and jay-x i dunno how they do on the other side of the ocean, but apparently getting with and scoreing with CHILDREN is cool.

but here the law will slap you all up and down your face and then slam you in a cell and make you register as a sex offender for the rest of your life
 

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Jay-X.. yeas ive seen that in Norway too... By the way she is Italian :) Whats up with America... that country just sux man... so much for the land of the free and the American dream...Americans seems to have a good and relaxed relationship to blood and gore and war and stuff but when it comes to sex you X and R-rate movies for a dime... I heard that people dont even breast feed their babies in america.... No wonder that Dahmer, bundy and manson grew up there.... No im just kidding.... man this just turned into an american politics critisism digresion.... Yeah i realize that youre probably right and im wrong im just gonna let this girl slide..thanks for replies guys
 

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Damnit! i just went to a god damn party and guess what... the same little fifteen year old hot girl was there. when she was gonna leave i was in the bathroom and i overheard from the hall that she said to someone she had to leave because she was meeting someone she had met on a snowboard trip before... a 20 year old... arggh.. and she "freaked out" when i hit on her.... i hate all women and especially that little ho.... man i just wanna kill someone.... preferably her date...


I mena why!! why cant i just get a girl... like her preferably.... i tried to hit on another girl... an open and outgoing mexican chick... but when i asked her if she wanted me to kiss her she said like.... no.... uh ... i was lik ok... damn im such a ****up loser... or i mean they are such idiots... i need to improve my game drastically.... cant even get a fifteen year old... what should i do damnt it... arhhggg.... i aint mad... im just like a little pissed off!111111!!!!... any advice anyone? before i go shot my self with a sawed of shotgun filled with enough nails and rusty screwdrivers to choke a dolhpin?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by Jay-X
i know lots of 14 yr old girls that have dated or have been steady with 25yr old guys... and nobody ever saw problems in that, so i can't get what's the problem between an almost 16 yr old and a boy who just turned 21... anyway, i'm from italy, maybe it's different in norway, but i doubt it
You don't see ANY maturity difference between a 25 year old and a 14 year old?
 

TillTheEndOfTime

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Women can be extremely immature at 20+. I can't even begin to imagine a 15 year old girl.
 

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ok im 14.
1. please dont try, same some of those girls for me and get some older chicks, thanks
2. WTF YOU ASKED TO KISS A GIRL? FOR 21, YOU'D THINK THATS A NO-NO BY THEN
3. leave the 15-16 yr old for me thanks
 

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Heyo, if there's grass on the field, play ball! lol I'm kidding...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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