Greetings to all of you. I ve been after this girl for 1 month now, showing some interest, having time together playing neg games etc. Then I lost my confidence and good mood, because of some reasons (one of them is that I started liking her 2 much and that I was afraid of a bad result), so she noticed and lost some serious amount of interest in me. At this time I made a risky move to show my cards and express my feelings but she didn't take me seriously, as if I were talking bull**** to go to bed with her and as I was interested to many women at the same time. I told her, that I wanted a chance to show her the truth and to deny some information about me in the group of friends we were together, where I had sex with 2 girls and in my opinion I handled it correclty (unfortunaly the 1 of them is very angry with me and has spoken to her).
I think I' m not an AFC (this year f.e. I had a score of 7), but sometimes I become one. We went out and she told me that nothing can be done since I had sex with these 2 girls and that she still has some feelings left from her previous relationship, but after some romantic things I did we kissed till the end of the night. When she left, she told me that she meant every word.
Yesterday, I pressed her to meet somewhere in her area for a while, because she had to leave for vacation and she told me that she was angry with me pressing her (I apologized immediatey, but I told her that I wanted to see her in any case) and that nothing has changed - we should better leave it!
We got back into the car and I changed attitude at once, being cool and neutral. And then she left very quickly without showing a thing.
I thought this was the kind of GOOD girl, which needs more persistance and interest than any-other and maybe she is and maybe my approach is very bad, so she rejects me. I have read and tried many interesting things from great PUAs and I seek some advice of you about this. Do you think that the situation can be reversed if I change attitude, gain confidence, be cool, interesting and effective again? How could I save this? I really want this girl and I am grateful to all of you at the first place (plz excuse my English
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I think I' m not an AFC (this year f.e. I had a score of 7), but sometimes I become one. We went out and she told me that nothing can be done since I had sex with these 2 girls and that she still has some feelings left from her previous relationship, but after some romantic things I did we kissed till the end of the night. When she left, she told me that she meant every word.
Yesterday, I pressed her to meet somewhere in her area for a while, because she had to leave for vacation and she told me that she was angry with me pressing her (I apologized immediatey, but I told her that I wanted to see her in any case) and that nothing has changed - we should better leave it!
We got back into the car and I changed attitude at once, being cool and neutral. And then she left very quickly without showing a thing.
I thought this was the kind of GOOD girl, which needs more persistance and interest than any-other and maybe she is and maybe my approach is very bad, so she rejects me. I have read and tried many interesting things from great PUAs and I seek some advice of you about this. Do you think that the situation can be reversed if I change attitude, gain confidence, be cool, interesting and effective again? How could I save this? I really want this girl and I am grateful to all of you at the first place (plz excuse my English
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