IRose's HS drought

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

AlexLefty

Master Don Juan

Jan 17, 2012

BPH said:
Why do you want me to spend so many hours in front of a computer? When I could be out approaching.

BPH, listen to yourself.

You're like a new programer. It's like you're trying to write a program without first knowing HTML. "Why do you want me to learn HTML when I could be programming?" Because HTML is programming! Sure you can try to program without learning HTML first, but it'll take you far longer to produce anything good. You must learn the system before you can crack it.

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.