Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
sparky0000 said:I would say that Northern Italian girls from the Torino area are more French looking (I am no fan of French girls...are you surprised?). Girls from Verona and especially Bolzano are much more Austrian/German. Most of the Veneto is more Germanic in nature than the rest of Italy. The food, the attitude, the stature, etc. Reason why it is the industrial heart of Italy. Every Italian will admit to this. The best looking girls in Italy come from the areas closest to Slovenia. Those girls have a more Balkan look to them. Balkan girls have decent bloodlines. Albanians don't though.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.