"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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lol! and depressed! was just int the same place as EX, Futere hsuband AND ex crush aka soulmate whom haven't seen in 1.5 years who is MARRIED.

HAVE NOTHIGN TO LOSE, ask any burning question about woman, will give you HONEST DRUNKEN WOMAN ANSWER.

Keep in minmd..

AM DRUNK.

AM HONESt. Too drunk to lie. May pass out in next hour.

:box: :rockon:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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iqqi said:
lol! and depressed! was just int the same place as EX, Futere hsuband AND ex crush aka soulmate whom haven't seen in 1.5 years who is MARRIED.

HAVE NOTHIGN TO LOSE, ask any burning question about woman, will give you HONEST DRUNKEN WOMAN ANSWER.

Keep in minmd..

AM DRUNK.

AM HONESt. Too drunk to lie. May pass out in next hour.

:box: :rockon:
Do you like movies about Gladiators?
 

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Have you ever fantasized about doing sexual things with another woman?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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iqqi said:
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Ues and i love ganster flicks. cux they always have HATERS and i relate.
and they sexy most of the time too.
Damn....you are fukked up.......
 

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How many men are you currently having sexual relations with?

Can we see a pic of the Iq?
 

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cordoncordon said:
How many men are you currently having sexual relations with?

Can we see a pic of the Iq?
none. got rid of the booty call over a month ago. not sure if that is the way of the iq.

iq is on myspace. two sosuavers are her myspace friends. :)

IDENTITY IS TOP SECRET
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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iqqi said:
yes. AM DRUNK and not smart, however game is INTACt.
just realized i may have invited unnecessary drama.... if anyone smart as me! to catch the potential "AW" comments and ... nvermind.... lol....

it fun being drunk!!! til next day...


god i can't BELIEVE married soulmate works at my fave bar now... AGAIN.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How old is the Iq?

Does the Iq like to rub her body in hot oils and dance around naked while singing kumbaya?
 

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How old is the Iq?

Does the Iq like to rub her body in hot oils and dance around naked while singing kumbaya?
kumbaya is gay as hell, will always be. But ues to everyting else. and a lady never tells her age. but some here do know.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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