"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Iphone!!
- Thread starter HandyAndy
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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Michele l'Arcangelo
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now that people bought the expensive ipod touch + phone... they might as well release the ipod touch now so they release their contract + buy ipod touch.
Francisco d'Anconia
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
That's questionable as of late since they aren't Cingular any more and they are are ones providing the crappy iPhone service.HandyAndy said:
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But I'm happy with my Razor. Besides, I can always sell it and buy the iPhone.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
http://www.informationweek.com/software/showArticle.jhtml?articleID=200001399HandyAndy said:
Oh yeah, and there's a thing with the phone bill if you don't let them know that you don't want an itemized bill.
http://www.usatoday.com/tech/wireless/phones/2007-08-14-iphone-bill_N.htm
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UdULhkh6yeA
http://fr.video.yahoo.com/video/play?ei=UTF-8&b=9&vid=966970&gid=1073762601
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U83p_jrzMlo
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qTkP-4CvoOE
You get the picture....
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.