IOI's girls give out in college ???

[rookie1471]

OK i am a college student (sophomore) and would like to know if these would be considered IOI's

I am 20 years old and while ive had coupla gf's i am pretty bad about reading signs especially in the classroom. I have had coupla girls ask me out in my lifetime. I am usually not shy and ill start conversation easily. I usually talk to at least 3-4 people that sit next to me in every class. I usually have to start the conversation with guys but most of the time girls will ask me random questions and from than on we talk like we know each other even though i never ask for their name. this is bad, i know, ... usually i dont have a problem introducing my self since i work in electronics store and have to do it often. Now at school i feel like it is kinda weird if you start talking to a girl and coupla minutes after that Ask her name , give her my name, shake hand and say nice to meet you. I havent seen anyone do that in class but most of the guys at my college are shy ...thats why i usually have to say something to them first. Am i missing something??? is there a better way to introduce yourself without looking like you are hitting on the girl in front of 20-30 students that are in the class?? Also i think i might be missing some IOIs so i am not sure .

Heres how today went

My first class i came in a bit late and took the seat towards back right side.
I dont usually sit there but since i was a bit late i didnt want to sit in the middle because i would disturb 3-4 people to get to my seat. 2-3 minutes later this girl came in and set right next to me even though there is plenty of seats everywhere. She asked me how to do something and asked me coupla other questions. I also asked her some. She kept fixing her cap and looking at her phone.

Next class this HB 7 that always sits in my row sits next to me since HB8 that usually sits there was not here today. she was the the first one to ask me question and she probobly untied and tied her hair 3-4 times. She also kept wiggling her hair and looking at her phone. She asked me 2-3 questions while looking me straight in the eyes. In that same class the girl in front of me kept going through her hair with her hand.

In my 3rd class nothing interesting happened.

My last class for the day, the girl that sits infront of me was going through her hair too. I never talked to her but shes about HB8 or so and seems nice. I will definitely ask her some random question next time so i can start having conversations with her.

I have read most of the bible and didnt find anything on IOI's. I have been reading this forum for 2-3 months but this time i decided to create a account and ask this question.

What are some IOIs (signs) that girls give out when they have interest in you. I would like some examples when you are in a class as well as when out of class. Thanks for the help

 

[stylemaker]

any subtle non-negative gesture

There are so many IOIs its crazy.. infact, if you think something's an IOI she will become MORE interested. cool eh? Here are some tips to tell if she is unconsciously digging you. She plays with her hair to show she is good for reproduction, she adjusts her earring to make sure she is just right (preening), her feet or foot points in your direction (usually the foot without all the weight distributed), eye contact, inside wrist flash (submission), looking at you then looks down or touching eyes.. it goes on and on and if you read the book, the Game, Zan says something like anytime a girl says something its an IOI. From my experiences, this is a great attitude. Also, if you think you are attractive, you will become attractive. These will help you spot out more IOIs and eventually you will notice that once you act UNinterested in their IOIs the other girls will instinctive challenge you to see if you respond to theirs and then you will see its all IOIs.

 

[IceCream]

Of course those are IOI's. What more do you need to know?

Stop focusing on "signs", and just go for the "kill". You're already thinking to much into it.

 

[rookie1471]

How about introduction part.... How do i introduce my self without looking like i am hitting on a girl infront of 20-30 people?? Does normal Ask her name, give your name, shake hand, and say nice to meet you work here??? is there a better way of doing it????

 

[Obsidian]

Quit looking for IOIs and just approach. If you still like her after the approach and she seems friendly back, #-close.

a good pattern for it I've figured out lately is to say "cya" or "nice to meet you" and then start to leave. Then turn back around and say, "Oh hey, why don't I get your number, in case I want to call you sometime?"

just like clockwork. The "in case" part leads them to think you might not actually call (and sometimes I don't!). Also, you don't have to do it the first time you meet them, unless you don't think you'll see them again. Sometimes it actually helps to let them warm up to you over a few different encounters.


Don't wait for the girls to ask you out! That's a road down a terribly UNMANLY life!

 

[Ryan69]

Just approach her after class and say something like " did you understand any of that" and smile

if she likes you she will smile back and you will start talking. Just keep slowly building once you get a foot in the door

relax and be yourself. University and college is a can't miss for hooking up. Don't make it confusing