"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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IOIs, body language of this dude

arlanda

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OK, there's this good looking guy at the university. I was just kinda observing him trying to find out what's the deal. He seems to be really popular with girls.

He's 6 feet something, blonde longer hair, good built (which reminds me to start working out again and YOU should too)

There are always like 2-3 girls around him, ALWAYS kinoing him, touching his ring, necklace or smelling his hair (time to buy some shiny cool necklace to give them an excuse)

Good posture, head always up, relaxed body language (trying to imitate him). Interestingly enough he is leaning in but I guess this is just a part of his natural "comfort building" routine.

He's also ****y but sometimes comes off as try hard (I am better at this one, lol). Anyway, he can say anything he wants the girls are always gigling :rolleyes:

Is body language SO important? I am trying to imitate everything he does, not sure about results yet. The only problem I see is I can't make myself smile as often as I'd like to.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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victor22

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Body langugae is so important in many aspects,

you can also learn body language from people who are success with women.
 
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