Involved or available?

[BigDawg]

Guys, I need your thoughts on this.

I was recently drinking a beer with a buddy of mine when I lamented that in the city where we live, there seems to be no available women. I get the impression that all the HBs are already happily involved (either dating, engaged, or married). Even some of the girls who look like they should be out in a pasture with a bell hanging under their necks have guys. I live in a college town in the Midwestern US, so you'd think that the place is ripe for the picking. I just don't get that vibe at all.

My buddy said to me that just because they're involved doesn't mean they aren't available. What I want to know from you guys is: do you think my buddy is right?

Is a woman who is already involved with someone always looking for a better deal, or are most of them content with the guy they have now? Now, I'll leave out engaged and married women from this group.

Before I lived in this city, I was involved in two different LTRs (back to back, with a few months gap between the two), and that period lasted about 10 years. So, I'm a little rusty on the prowl, ya know?

 

[Jus_LikeCandy]

Are you being to picky about the types of girls you are looking for. Maybe you should expand your horizons. Try something different.

And, just because they are involved, that doesn't equal unavailable.

 

[BigDawg]

Originally posted by Jus_LikeCandy
Are you being to picky about the types of girls you are looking for. Maybe you should expand your horizons. Try something different.

And, just because they are involved, that doesn't equal unavailable.

I've been accused of being too picky once or twice, so sure, I've expanded my horizons.

But I guess gauging the already involved as to their level of happiness is part of the equation. It *seems* that all of the HB's in this town are happily involved. Maybe that's not true, and I definitely need to improve my DJ skills to be able read which HBs (who are involved) may be willing to "switch horses in the middle of a race," so to speak.

 

[Luveno]

If theres nothing around, dont go lowering your standards for sex.

Instead, do what I did: move.