"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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inviting multiple "potentials" to my house party?

buffalobill

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Hey guys. Me and my roommates are throwing a big house party here this weekend. I've got 2 girls "on the go" at the moment (made good impressions and rapport, been on 1 coffee date and some texting kind of thing, but no kissing or anything) and I definitely want to have one of them around at this party. I'm pretty confident that I've got them "right where I want them," and could easily kiss/f*ck close either of them at this party.

The question is, do I invite both of them? Does this have potential to blow up in my face if they both show up? or could this make me seem of high value with lots of options? (keep in mind that I want some freedom to meet the other random hotties who are gonna be at the party)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Captain

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Personally I'd do it. Play them off each other. Don't lie or make any excuses for what you are doing, because you are doing nothing wrong. If one girl gets jealous she may try to get some kind of a reaction from you, so don't let any bad behaviour affect you, be cool and nonreactive.
 

AAAgent

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not a good idea. I've had it happen to me before where i came with 2 girls and i assumed one was a friend and i knew the other one liked me. They basically fought for dominance until the hotter one won which i was glad since i didn't want the uglier one winning but it made it awkward later on. I've also had girls try to pull me away infront of other girls.

Not only does it cause drama, girls tend to like you less as well as get disinterested. No one likes drama and sometimes girls will settle for the easier guy instead of having to fight a b1tch for you. One of my ex's backed away from me because this other girl kept threatening her and claiming me as her property.
 
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