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Inviting a girl to my hotel room

indiansarger

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Hi guys

I am new to the game but I must say that I have already learnt a lot from this forum.

Here's my question:

I am going to be in a place called Dahab in Egypt during New Year's eve and a few days after that. Dahab is basically a laid back sea-side resort that is extremely popular with backpackers.

I plan to do a fair bit of sarging in Dahab. One of the areas at which I am stuck is - what pretext do I use to get a girl to come to my hotel room after I've built enough Comfort with her? And having done that, how do I then get her to bed?

My current plan is to have 1 or 2 cool Egyptian antiques in my room and then invite the girl to my room with the pretext of showing her those antiques. Once I've shown the antiques to her, I plan to somehow get behind her back, start massaging her back, kiss her back, then start kissing her lips and take it from there depending on how she responds.

Can you guys suggest anything I can do to improve my chances with the above strategy? Alternatively, can you suggest a different approach altogether to get her to agree to come to my hotel room and then get her to bed?

Thanks.
 

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yeah tell her to polish the antique in your pants
 

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Have a drink is the universal answer. Mention the antique in passing, without saying "my hotel room" and see if she shows interest. If she does not bite, then don't bring it up again and use something else. The higher the buying temp in her you create, the less suave you have to be. If you are already making out, rub her neck or something to get her to say it feels good, then tell her you give an amazing massage, she should come back to your room...
 
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