invited to b day party for real or was invited just so she can get free gifts??

[joe45]

ok yesterday i went to my female freind(lisa) b day party. i haven't seen this plantonic friend in approx 3 months. i say shes pretty nice, she set me up with a temp job during the christmas season. we aren;t really close ,but we hang out here and there -not often as she is buys and has a bf of 8 yrs and other friends she knew longer than me-she is popular.

my other friend (gordon)who is kind of pessitmic about ppl and is kind of selfish after realizing it for 7 yrs , says this girl only invited me b/c to fill seats, and b/c she wants presents. that is the only reason she invited me ,and that she doesn;t even like me-considering how i said i saw her more as a aquintance before

Gordon has never met Lisa. i talk about Lisa and tell him things to Gordon. like how i met her, but we hardly hang out once a 3 months. me and lisa don;t have much in common other than same age, same ethnic background,

i just got her a 10 dollar starbucks giftcard. she did mention that she didn;t want any present, and just to see me smile, but hey u can;t go to a b day party with nothing right. but u now some ppl say they expect nothing,but really want something right. "say it ,but don;t mean it" so i got her the giftcard.
Oh ya Gordon the guy that said he set me up with girls, but never did, said he'll get me a job at airport, but never happend. said he had a lot of girls, he knew ,but never set me up.

the thing i am asking is how can u tell if u were invited to a birhtday party b/c that friend of urs like u-u are her real friend and likes u , or if htey just invited u to fill seats and just to get more presents. any clues to find out...etc how can u tell. is

 

[int3l]

does it really matter? you got invited, now do your thing.

 

[BacardiGuy]

Are you 12?

 

[Microfiltered]

Oh ya Gordon the guy that said he set me up with girls, but never did, said he'll get me a job at airport, but never happend. said he had a lot of girls, he knew ,but never set me up.

This is pretty interesting stuff. Tell me more about your life?

the thing i am asking is how can u tell if u were invited to a birhtday party b/c that friend of urs like u-u are her real friend and likes u , or if htey just invited u to fill seats and just to get more presents. any clues to find out

Here’s the only clue I got. Phone her up and ask her. DO IT, it would be funny. Be like “Yeah did you invite me just to get more presents or do you actually see me as a legitimate friend? I just want to know because my friend is a little paranoid”. Yeah, I think worrying about this sh!it is pretty ridiculous. But maybe this is just a culture thing; meaning in my culture, this kind of thinking is really lame. Perhaps your culture thinks differently.

Are you 12?

He’s not 12 unless he’s lying about it in his profile. It says he’s 25. And anyways, do you really think a 12 year old could write like that? I know I couldn’t when I was 12.

 

[joe45]

This is pretty interesting stuff. Tell me more about your life?



Here’s the only clue I got. Phone her up and ask her. DO IT, it would be funny. Be like “Yeah did you invite me just to get more presents or do you actually see me as a legitimate friend? I just want to know because my friend is a little paranoid”. Yeah, I think worrying about this sh!it is pretty ridiculous. But maybe this is just a culture thing; meaning in my culture, this kind of thinking is really lame. Perhaps your culture thinks differently.



He’s not 12 unless he’s lying about it in his profile. It says he’s 25. And anyways, do you really think a 12 year old could write like that? I know I couldn’t when I was 12.

well do u want to get used. ok whatever floats ur boat. i mean if u have dignity and self esteem u would care.

 

[Rash]

man learn to do what you like and only what you like!! who told you its mandatory to bring a gift! you got invinted just go eat a lot of food if there is a buffet meet new girls and have fun for free thats what I usually do lol

 

[Microfiltered]

Listen to rash and realize you’re not being used.

 

[BenPW-DJNewbie]

That guy sounds like a Jerk. Ignore him, he sounds like a bad influence in your life and you don't need that kinda ****. If she hasn't seen you in three months, she obviously want's to meet up with you again and catch up. She wouldn't invite some random guy, she once knew. Chill, and IMO I would NEVER go to a Birthday party without a gift, it's just common courtesy.
And you need to relax mate, listen to Rash. His advice is true.