"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Invited to an open bar from a chick on facebook with hot friends...

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But I havent met her yet. Im proceeding with caution...she normally invites the world but she hasnt in this case.

Bringing a trusty wing with me tonight. Any advice?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Advice? Umm... Have fun, socialize, meet new people, try to get laid. Any more questions?
 
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horaholic...ur right.

Im just not to keen on the meet online thing. Ive always thought it was cheese.

Normally this wouldnt be a problem.
 
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Welcome to this strange new world. I haven't gone down that road yet, but it seems everyone else is.
 
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just go out and have fun, don't be dependent on an outcome. set a goal of getting 3-4 invites out by girls a week, the more girl "friends" you have the more fun you will have in general.. annnddd the more girls you will bang =)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Hey fellas...

Yea it was fun times...got some plates spinning.

The online thing is still weird...but I guess its here to stay.
 
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