"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Invited to a superbowl party

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Hi fellas,

Last night I invited a girl out for some beer and bar games, I was vague and acted like she was already going, and this really piqued her interest. This morning she bailed on me due to a "dinner I promised my roomates" but wants to make it up later. She called later and left a message saying she felt bad and invited me to a superbowl party.

Though I have no plans as of yet, and don't really care should I go? We often have difficulty getting ahold of eachother and setting up times to meet due to busy schedules. She is attracted to me, and we had a thing in the past, but my recent progression from an AFC has been noticed by her and occasionally commented upon. What do you think about this? How can I use this opportunity to increase her interest further?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The questions you have to ask yourself here is:

Do you want to go to the party?

and

Do you want to see her?

and

Do you have any better options?

If the answer to the first two are yes, and the last one is no. Then go.

The best way to increase her interest is to be a cool guy and have fun with her. Then make a move when the time is right.

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Go no matter how you feel if anything it will be a new experience see if you can bring one of your bros though its always good to have backup.
 
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A backup what?
 
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a back up friend, confidant, comrade, battle buddy, what have you.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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If there isn't a real party after the superbowl game then it might not lead to anything.

I mean I would imagine that in this superbowl party all you are going to be doing is sitting there, watching the game and drinking beer with her and her friends. I highly doubt that in this atmosphere you can really do something with her or it was done on purpose in having her friends gauge/judge you or potentially block you from advancing on her when they are around.

I say if you don't have other Superbowl parties get together with your friends then go to this one but don't expect anything big from happening.
 
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