"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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invitation to play tennis...

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ok guys here's the deal. I like this girl and I invited her to play tennis with me because I'm pretty good at it. Anyways, I asked her if she wanted to come with me and my friend to hit and she's like "uh...i don't really know how to play..."

but the thing is, a week ago she was really excited about it. I think she just wanted some alone time with me without my friend being there (i asked to test her). What do you guys think?

anyways, i said I'd take her out to make up for it after this social event we're both going to. she plays softball really well and we play sometimes, but now she said she sucks at tennis but likes it anyway and wants to learn.
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

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Did she agree to play tennis with you?

If she did and she's not very good, there's plenty of room for kino. Holding her hand to show her how to grip the racket, moving her entire arm to practice swinging.
 
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wow. this is eerie. i have the exact situation with a girl. i play tennis, she plays softball, and she's always talkin about how she wants to play tennis with me. weird....

anyway, i say give her lessons. but of course, when i say lessons, i mean an excuse to be alone with her and for kino. lol. go for it dude!
 
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yeah I asked if she was busy today.'

me: hey are you busy this weekend?
her: hmm...probably not
me: cool, you wanna cash in your tennis lesson raincheck?:D
her: lol yea sure
me: ok i'm gonna be there around 11 so we can grab a bite afterwards.


then we started walkin to class. so yea, i guess it'll be pretty shwweeet:cheer:
 
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