"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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invitation to play tennis...

Kerensky

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ok guys here's the deal. I like this girl and I invited her to play tennis with me because I'm pretty good at it. Anyways, I asked her if she wanted to come with me and my friend to hit and she's like "uh...i don't really know how to play..."

but the thing is, a week ago she was really excited about it. I think she just wanted some alone time with me without my friend being there (i asked to test her). What do you guys think?

anyways, i said I'd take her out to make up for it after this social event we're both going to. she plays softball really well and we play sometimes, but now she said she sucks at tennis but likes it anyway and wants to learn.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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immrtlwun

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Did she agree to play tennis with you?

If she did and she's not very good, there's plenty of room for kino. Holding her hand to show her how to grip the racket, moving her entire arm to practice swinging.
 

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wow. this is eerie. i have the exact situation with a girl. i play tennis, she plays softball, and she's always talkin about how she wants to play tennis with me. weird....

anyway, i say give her lessons. but of course, when i say lessons, i mean an excuse to be alone with her and for kino. lol. go for it dude!
 

Kerensky

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yeah I asked if she was busy today.'

me: hey are you busy this weekend?
her: hmm...probably not
me: cool, you wanna cash in your tennis lesson raincheck?:D
her: lol yea sure
me: ok i'm gonna be there around 11 so we can grab a bite afterwards.


then we started walkin to class. so yea, i guess it'll be pretty shwweeet:cheer:
 
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