"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Invitation to hookup?

green69

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So i was talkin with this girl from work (part time job) who i am kinda friends with, but i'm pretty sure she used to like me but i didn't go for it for various reasons. Anyways, i'd still kinda like to hook up with her...she is cute. So i was talkin with her on msn, and i made a joke about how if we were in a club she wouldn't be able to resist hooking up with me. She responded like "you know...i will try my best (to resist)" "whatever happens.. we will... ya know be mature about it." Is that a hint that she wouldn't mind hooking up if the opportunity arose?
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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green69

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hate to do this lol...but *bump*

any ideas?
 

GloriouslyInsane

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I wouldn't give much value to her comments,cause it's like..msn? A friend of mine was promised an FFM menage a trois over sms and got the LJBF line in the end.Judge by actions,not words.
 

Amigu

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You can't know until you try man. Just keep up the flirting and make your move when you are in a situation that warrants it. To me it sounds promissing but you can screw it up at any point so don't just view it as a done deal, hold the heaat.
 
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