"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Invitation to hookup?

green69

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So i was talkin with this girl from work (part time job) who i am kinda friends with, but i'm pretty sure she used to like me but i didn't go for it for various reasons. Anyways, i'd still kinda like to hook up with her...she is cute. So i was talkin with her on msn, and i made a joke about how if we were in a club she wouldn't be able to resist hooking up with me. She responded like "you know...i will try my best (to resist)" "whatever happens.. we will... ya know be mature about it." Is that a hint that she wouldn't mind hooking up if the opportunity arose?
 
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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green69

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hate to do this lol...but *bump*

any ideas?
 

GloriouslyInsane

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I wouldn't give much value to her comments,cause it's like..msn? A friend of mine was promised an FFM menage a trois over sms and got the LJBF line in the end.Judge by actions,not words.
 

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You can't know until you try man. Just keep up the flirting and make your move when you are in a situation that warrants it. To me it sounds promissing but you can screw it up at any point so don't just view it as a done deal, hold the heaat.
 
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